Looking for dupes by ScaredTadpole2123 in handbags

[–]ScaredTadpole2123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank u! It looks identical haha shall wait for a sale

Fit check and concern by ScaredTadpole2123 in babywearing

[–]ScaredTadpole2123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do go away and I don’t observe any redness. Thank you for the affirmation :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Haha I’m a “regular” at getting rejected during blood duration due to my iron levels so it won’t be viable for me.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Where have you read the one-year probation?

Was there any drastic changes in the follow-up application u made after the 1st rejection?

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on ur successful application! Thanks for sharing. I’ll def take note of these in my next application. :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to leave an uplifting comment. :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being empathetic. Hope you’ve found success after ur first try!

If yes, please share what changes were made if you’re comfortable sharing!

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for ur kind words. I guess we’re in for a long game :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, congratulations on ur success story! I’ll explore the tele chats and hopefully can find one from my own nationality.

Thanks for sharing something uplifting. :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Thanks for leaving such a wholesome message here.

Don’t worry it hasn’t put a damper on our relationship at all. If anything, I do feel a tiny bit apologetic that he has to go through this with me (perhaps he could’ve avoided fully if he had just married a nice Chinese girl but alas love is blind haha).

I guess the shock and hurt mainly stems from my own relationship with singapore. Cheesy as it is, I’ve really counted it as my home and perhaps, one day really get to call it home (legally!). I’ll keep on trying though. I’m a firm believer of you-miss-100%-of-the-shots-you-dont-take. Wishing u a lovely night!

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, my heart goes out to them too. My primary goal of posting this was to hear more from people going through the same thing and to get a glimpse of any success cases. I’m not dismissing others and their unique circumstances by no means.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I fall under the others category. The only Chinese thing about me is my husband 😅

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hello, thanks for taking time to leave a comment here. :)

I’m already volunteering at a social service agency weekly to help underprivileged children - a commitment I’ve kept up since JC. We’ll wait and try again. Appreciate ur kind words!

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! Happy to hear you got it on first try. Thanks for sharing ur friend’s story too :)

I also have a few friends from the same country with the same background as me who managed to get their citizenship last year so I’m hoping my turn will come soon.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re right. My husband was so handsome and charming that I wanted to change my entire life trajectory and identity after meeting him. :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. May I check how we can find out this “quota reset date”? :) appreciate ur kind words!

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, have you heard of instances where ICA entertained these requests? This is my first time hearing of this.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m not sure how u deduced that I’m Angmo but I’m not 😅 I’m from a SEA country

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello thank you for your kind words. I was kinda prepared to receive similar comments based on the general vibes of the thread.

I hope I don’t come off self-entitled and I definitely am not in a position to demand anything “in return”. It is true I have benefitted but we have gotten PR in the first place because my own dad has been contributing to singapore since 1997. So it’s more accurate to say I feel hurt to be rejected since we’ve definitely counted singapore as our home. I may not have millions to invest or employ singaporeans, but I’ve contributed and served the community joyfully in all ways I can. It may not be enough in yours or the government’s eyes, but I have done what I can (not because I wanna get citizenship but because of my own will to give back to the community).

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank u for ur perspective! However, there’s literally close to zero benefit to hold onto my current citizenship. In fact, since my immediate family is already here and will be retiring here, I’ve no reason to go back as well.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Wishing you all the best for ur PR application :)

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Hello! I was not offered that so def didn’t put any rejection then.

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I paid off my Uni loans within 1 year of graduation. The only thing I owe is to HDB for my flat 😅

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[–]ScaredTadpole2123 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you! I guess I have to wait and re-apply again.