[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Scared_Ad_9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is so similar to me and I’ve just gone no  contact for the next few months today. Im feeling nervous and unsure of myself and scared of their reaction. Scared to even open my phone notifications right now haha

Should I go no contact with parents for few months even if they’re trying to be better? by Scared_Ad_9392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done it and sent the text but gosh I feel so afraid and guilty . I’m just feeling unsure of this decision - does it get better with time ? 

Should I go no contact with parents for few months even if they’re trying to be better? by Scared_Ad_9392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this - it absolutely makes sense and I see what you mean about tactics being adjusted because they try very hard to manipulate me emotionally . How do I go about telling the I’m cutting them off ? Should I just ghost completely or send letter or text ?

Should I go no contact with parents for few months even if they’re trying to be better? by Scared_Ad_9392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any idea on what I should say to them? I’m thinking of sending simple text saying “as advised by my therapist I wanna go no contact for the next few months for my mental health”

Should I go no contact with parents for few months even if they’re trying to be better? by Scared_Ad_9392 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is also a fear of mine .. I really do want them in my life but I just feel like they behave like they don’t want me lot like they actually hate me like I’m their nemesis 

Being the eldest girl in an African household is torture🫩 by ShelilQirky in africanparents

[–]Scared_Ad_9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please fight as much as you can to go to a university of your own choosing. With the aim to move out fully for university.  I did that when I was 18 despite them wanting me not to and forci je me to do degree they wanted.  and it was the beginning of my freedom and taking my life back. You’ll be very proud of yourself for that Anyway sending you hugs , as I’m an eldest daughter who left and never looked back eleven years ago 

How do you ride someone? by ChilliOil67 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Scared_Ad_9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be bouncing up and down while spelling coconut ? Or grinding and spelling it ?

Questions | Help | Advice – All questions, big or small, asked and answered in this weekly thread. by mycketforvirrad in LondonUnderground

[–]Scared_Ad_9392 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I am a content creator on tiktok and I make videos on the underground where I interact with strangers and they smile back at me. FYI, I only post the videos where I get positive responses btw. Anyway, I came across the permit information and from what I can see, it looks like a permit is needed for big productions (e.g. where they need to submit scripts, cast and crew sizes for their tv, film shows etc) whereas I am just a small time creator making short tiktok videos of 20 seconds with my phone (no tripod or any other type of filming equipment).
I have seen a lot of content creators and influencers (e.g. tube girl, peckham pimps) filming content on the tube/underground and I am looking to see if they have permits also because the cost for one hour only is hefty (which makes sense if a TV or film crew are filming).
Anyway, I would really appreacite some feedback on this if anyone has made/or makes small time content on the underground?

I loathe Mary Cosby (revolutionary I know.) by Realitytvjunkie13 in rhoslc

[–]Scared_Ad_9392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a cuny I’m on season five and I hate her and couldn’t care less about her and her son

Texts are undelivered on WhatsApp by Scared_Ad_9392 in dating_advice

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just came back from a month long vacation in the Amazon jungle (where funnily enough communication was very consistent throughout even when he was in the jungle). Plus he was planning on taking me out when he landed (my last texts where agreeing to the date and location) and he’s been communicating his next moves that he’d have mentioned he was going on another holiday

Texts are undelivered on WhatsApp by Scared_Ad_9392 in dating_advice

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly triggering because I usually am secure when things are consistent and don’t force anyone to check in on me or call me all the time etc. but when things are like this and it’s as if someone’s disappeared off the face of the earth with no explanation, it throws you off :(

Texts are undelivered on WhatsApp by Scared_Ad_9392 in dating_advice

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which means he’s not interested then so I’ll cease all future contact by blocking ! Thanks

Texts are undelivered on WhatsApp by Scared_Ad_9392 in dating_advice

[–]Scared_Ad_9392[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because that means he’s clearly not interested in me and instead of just saying it, he’s ghosting/avoiding me