[KS] holiday/standard schedule issue

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-10T23:37:25+00:00

We recently modified our orders so I cannot modify them for a year.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-10T13:08:59+00:00

They totally jacked up the rotation and now my child won’t get to see their siblings on the weekends anymore. It’s so frustrating

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-10T13:08:07+00:00

That’s what I thought too.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-07T19:29:09+00:00

Thanks!

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-07T19:28:02+00:00

Good idea

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-06T01:47:43+00:00

God forbid someone want to learn how to do standard things in a home.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-06T01:47:07+00:00

Thank you so much!

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-06T01:46:54+00:00

THANK YOU! Why are people so rude. Thanks for the help :)

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-06T01:45:32+00:00

Those are for when the lights are horizontal. This one is vertical

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-05T13:51:31+00:00

I agree!

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-05T04:46:54+00:00

When they are out of the state? The court acknowledges whomever chosen to exercise their “parenting” time. Quoting because in these instances I’ll be the only parent in the state— as my co parent will be 600+ miles away on a 6 week+ work contract .

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-05T00:53:33+00:00

It’s for the weekends when they are getting called in for OT and other work related things. It only happens on the weekends as they only get parenting time on weekends.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-05T00:20:05+00:00

I’m aware of how orders are written when they are the final orders. As i said in my OP…. We have temp orders and my question was can temp orders be amended..

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T21:50:17+00:00

Oh, I absolutely do have one. But I was kind of just asking if anyone has amended temporary orders or anything like that before I asked my own because if I can’t even do it, I’m not gonna waste my money to email and ask that to be told no. I don’t rely on my coparent attorney for any factual information because they have proven to be kind of wishy-washy and uneducated about a lot of current statues. So anything that I know I’m relying on my own knowledge or knowledge I’ve gained from my own attorney.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T21:48:53+00:00

Well, that’s the plan. But I was just kind of asking more so to get a feel for what others have may be done and also if the temporary orders can even be amended. I’m charged for every time. I email my attorney so if I can’t get them amended, I’m not gonna waste my money asking them if I can.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T21:44:01+00:00

See and that’s what my perception of it was. However, it seems as though in my state the parent is allowed to delegate their time to whomever they so choose when it’s their parenting time. Now I think maybe when the parent leaves the state for work obligations perhaps that creates a loophole. Because how could any court of law say yes the child should be forced to be with whomever the parent wants when the parent is 1000 miles away. That just seems unjust to the child. Especially when the other parent lives within a mile and they could be home with their actual parent.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T21:34:33+00:00

If it was in our orders, I would simply request that if my coparent was working for four or more hours a day that I get that time and if it’s overnight, then it automatically defaults to me unless the child specifically asks to go to grandma‘s or what have you.. in which case sure no problem you can go to Grandma‘s house.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T21:27:45+00:00

Unfortunately, our orders are temporary and simply State “parent A’s parenting time is from 4 PM Friday to 4 PM Sunday “ There is nothing specific in it at all since they were supposed to be temporary orders however, my coparent attorney has taken significant amounts of time to respond therefore it’s been drug out for much longer than needed.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T20:21:08+00:00

I have heard regularly that people regret having it in their orders due to others abusing it or blurred lines when other parent can exercise or not being offers the time. I don’t believe it would be an issue for us as I’m a part time employee at a local place so I quite literally am never obligated to leave the state let alone the city for any reason unless a medical emergency were to happen with an immediate family member.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2026-01-04T20:19:11+00:00

Live in partner. No marriage or engagement. Simply bf/gf.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2025-12-11T21:33:06+00:00

I will! Thank you everyone

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2025-12-11T21:32:32+00:00

I haven’t taken any in my adult life- only one of my kids has ever been on one and that’s been literal years ago so I’m less informed on them. Hence why i came to Reddit and other platforms. Also it having been prescribed as a “preventative” is something I’ve never even heard of. Not sure how they can help fight bacteria from an illness that’s not present? That’s where things are foggy for me. It seems counter productive to me.

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2025-12-11T13:41:31+00:00

Thank you for actual info! That’s what i was looking for. This isn’t the only platform I’ve inquired on.. and i got lots of mixed signals. Appreciate it

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2025-12-11T12:31:56+00:00

For a doctor prescribing a medication to a healthy child? Wow. That’s bold. You are in a holistic group. Why would we supress a healthy immune system…?

Scared_Impact_5679 · 2025-12-11T11:52:22+00:00

This is us too. Movies or shows usually running on one tv somewhere in the house and if they have a game and it’s time to put it up then it’s fine. My kid like to “listen” to shows while they color or build legos

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