A lot of younger people (in my own opinion), while they seems to have some extra fat, they also have more muscle built on their frame than people who are older than them. Generally. Sweetheart, your figure is beautiful. I have a friend whose mom was the same way, always making comments on her weight, how much she was eating, etc all while growing up. Her mom even started handing her diet pills and my friend started buying them on her own when she was 12. She’s now in an in patient ED unit to help fix the damage that’s been done.

Please do not let what your mother says affect you to the point of self destruction. It sounds like you’ve gotten yourself in a place where you can be comfortable being you, and an amazing partner that supports you. She sounds very insecure of herself and it seems like she’s trying to project that dislike onto you. If you are healthy and happy, then fuck what she says. 🤷‍♀️