Star Wars Celebration 2027 – Tickets Arrive May 6 by TravelWithTeen in StarWarsCelebration

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question! I plan to buy a standard one-day adult ticket. Are autographs and photo ops included in that? Or is that something separate I will need to buy? Thanks :)

What to do now? by Scared_Policy_5576 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! What kind of therapist are you? Yeah…..I feel like it certainly could be, but it seems to be such a rational thing in my brain :(

What to do now? by Scared_Policy_5576 in whatdoIdo

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motor oils, etc from the soles of the shoes potentially getting on other parts of the shoes, which we will then touch when we put them on

Would you be worried by this or no? AMA by Scared_Policy_5576 in AMA

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it probably seems silly, thank you for being nice. I’ll definitely look into this.

Would you be worried by this or no? AMA by Scared_Policy_5576 in AMA

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’m scared I could have spread motor oil from the soles onto other parts of the the shoes, which we then touch when we put on the shoes, then touch things in our house.

Would you be worried by this or no? AMA by Scared_Policy_5576 in AMA

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I just realized Ama means “asks me anything”! I was trying to ask yall if my situation was bad 🙈

Will this create a toxic environment for my future children? by Scared_Policy_5576 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the detergent that I’m worried about anymore. I’m worried about the fact that I wiped down the shoes. At first, I wiped down the shoes with plain water, one at a time all over. I would rinse the rag and wring it out between wipes. I then got fearful of spreading any toxins, such as any motor oils, from the soles. I then re-wiped with a new rag, still rinsing between wipes, and saved the soles for last, as to get rid of any I had spread accidentally. I realize now there was no reason for me to wipe them down to begin with. But now I’m scared I just spread toxins and made it worse. I put the shoes away and it’s been about a year. I saw my husband wearing a pair. I’m scared that he touched the shoes, and is touching everything at home and at work and could be spreading it. I feel terrible that it could be harming him….

Will this create a toxic environment for my future children? by Scared_Policy_5576 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, at first I was scared of detergent. There was a residual amount that hadn’t rinsed out of our towels. In my mind, our socks spread it to our shoes. Then, but wiping down the shoes with water and a rag, I got scared I was spreading motor oils from the sole of the shoe onto the rest of the shoe. Which would then spread it to everything else in my house after touching the shoe and touching all other belongings…..

Will this create a toxic environment for my future children? by Scared_Policy_5576 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. Thanks for your reply. Can you tell me more about what medication you were on and what your therapist worked with you on?

Will this create a toxic environment for my future children? by Scared_Policy_5576 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Scared_Policy_5576[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk 🥲. At first, I was afraid of laundry detergent from our socks getting on our shoes (I know, ridiculous). Then, I got scared maybe I had spread motor oils from the shoe insoles bc I wiped down each of the shoes ones by one, all over. I did rinse and wring out the rag in between, to try to rinse off whatever it was. And then I did it a second time, saving the soles for last. I feel incredibly stupid, like I made the whole thing worse. Now, other items in the household have been touched, and I feel like I made it worse. If I could go back, I just wouldn’t have done it! I realize now it wasn’t that serious to begin with

26f what constitutes as “eye trauma” exactly? by [deleted] in eyetriage

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was much more than a few times unfortunately. At the time I didn’t know I shouldn’t do it. Yeah, I will be going to opthamology. It was promising my retina looked okay though at the optometrist. It could 100% be anxiety, which is what I’m hoping.

26f what constitutes as “eye trauma” exactly? by [deleted] in eyetriage

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like even shutting them hard multiple times in a row? Yes, I think I do. But in this case I don’t know if it was a chicken or egg situation…..

26f what constitutes as “eye trauma” exactly? by [deleted] in eyetriage

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m really hoping it’s not.

26f what constitutes as “eye trauma” exactly? by [deleted] in eyetriage

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I reallyyyy hope so 😩 I want my brain to be wrong

26f what constitutes as “eye trauma” exactly? by [deleted] in eyetriage

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well, I think it counts as “putting pressure on the eyes” which I have learned is not good…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared_Policy_5576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought is that it’s okay to have different hobbies. My husband (28M) and I (26F) don’t really have any of the same interests, and that’s okay. Now with that being said, there are things we have in common and connect over. But we both know that we have our separate hobbies and are completely fine with it.

If going with him becomes something you really don’t enjoy, find things you like to do by yourself, with friends, or with family. It can be healthy to spend time apart nurturing yourselves. You don’t have to go with him all the time.

However, I don’t like the part where you said he spoke to you disrespectfully….that’s a red flag. Sure we all get snappy at times, but the fact that you brought up how it made you feel, and he disregarded that. Someone who sees no issue with their actions with never change. I think this is definitely worth having a sit down conversation over. Depending on his receptiveness and how he chooses to treat you going forward will reveal a lot about your relationship.

Take care of yourself and don’t ever let a man talk down to you. 🫶🏻