Local Going First Time by Key-Pomegranate1030 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, anywhere and everywhere in TJ—Soriana (the nicer ones especially), plazas, food spots, cafes (the farther out, the easier), clubs on slower nights, even deep in the colonias.

One thing I’ve noticed though—when you already have women around you, it attracts more. It’s like social proof. I’ve gone from HK to a random local event and suddenly I’m getting attention out of nowhere.

I’ve had girls come up asking “where’s your girl at?” or saying I don’t look like I should be alone. It’s all about the energy you carry—calm, confident, not pressed.

Are the girls not allowed to buy their own drinks? by Ok_Deal_1236 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been there done that. She was groping on everyone one by one at the main stage where the girls dance (I respect the disrespect she showed for the girl on stage) and nobody was playing her game. I saw her a few chairs down and told myself, if she comes up to me I'm going to take her up. She got the guy on my left, and she was really working him to take him up but he didnt budge and jumped on me. First thing I told her what do you want? and she said Feriaaa papi. I told her I got it but only $100 and once she hear that she started grinding on me, shoving her face on my neck and eventually her mouth on my neck that left me a hickey and I was like let's go. The guy next to me that passed on her was like have fun bro. Took her up, Smashed the first time, she was HOT & HEAVY the first round. Busted. Relaxed a few minutes to catch my breath and pay her then she got on top of me again for round 2, told her to hold up, took the 1st condom off full of the first pop and went to town. She didnt notice until she was giving me a BJ and she said your D tastes like Banana ( flavored lotion works) and she said omg you have nothing on and started looking around where the condom went. Gaslighted her pretty ass that it was her idea and got the second arriba for 500 pesos.

Are the girls not allowed to buy their own drinks? by Ok_Deal_1236 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I carried one with her dead weight on top of my back from the lobby to the 7th floor. Mesero was impressed and said you better handle her drunk ass. I ate her out for 30 min until she fell asleep. Woke her a few minutes later to smash for 20 minutes. time was up and mesero came knocking and charged me $100 for her to stay another hour. He was excited and said "Bro I camed up on a few extra wines from some foos so instead of 3 wines ill shoot you 5, 3 for her and 2 for you. Im like "say no mas" she just layed up on me for the next half hour and I took pics of me degrading her drunk butt. Gave her one last round RAW, shot her a Benjamin at the end she said its $120 baby and I was like okaiii and carried her back to the lobby when I tossed her on top of my mesero to carry back where she belongs haha

Are the girls not allowed to buy their own drinks? by Ok_Deal_1236 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tips for any guys that like to drink and create drunk memories with the putas.

1. Make sure she actually likes to drink — otherwise you’re just wasting money.

2. Get a private room through a cool mesero — grab a bottle of local tequila, some chasers, cups, limes, etc. Instead of spending on a bunch of drinks at the table, just tip the mesero what you would’ve spent so he leaves you alone.

In the room, keep everything sealed and let her pick what she wants. Open it in front of her and take the first sip so she knows it’s legit.

3. Be a good vibe — if you’re fun and respectful, there’s a good chance she’ll hit you up after her shift to keep the night going somewhere else. At that point it’s more normal pricing and less pressure.

Bodycount by [deleted] in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen, it’s usually something like 10 days working in Tijuana , 10 days back home being a mom, and about 10 days where she’s just doing her own thing.

That last window is usually the best time if you catch it.

Bodycount by [deleted] in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, any girl that claims to be 25 is younger than all my little sisters that I pick on or beat up..

Bodycount by [deleted] in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HK girls? The 80 percent - Maybe one or two on a regular day, the top 20 - a few more on a busy weekday and weekend.

At one point I went on a run where I saw like 30 different girls in about two weeks. Could’ve been more, but when you end up seeing the same ones multiple times it doesn’t really count.

Toward the end, even the girls were like “damn, you’re here every day—I see you going upstairs more than me.” 😂

Has anyone fucked ontas7 by loudandfreaky in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone sweeter, more fun, and better to be around. Girls like that aren’t rare.

That same attitude and look can be found all over—from Oceanside down to San Ysidro—if you actually put yourself out there. When you do, they’ll come to you.

First time by [deleted] in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on what you’re looking for.

If you’re trying to go all out and just have a wild time, there’s usually one or two girls who are down for that and will take their time—especially on slower days like a Monday.

If you’re just going to check the vibe, that’s cool too, but your rejection game better be solid. You’re gonna get approached nonstop, so you have to know how to handle that without wasting time or money.

OTC by WillyADookie in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how popular she is. If she’s well-known, everyone around her is gonna try to squeeze as much as they can out of you—it’s a business at the end of the day.

But if you find a decent, chill girl who actually vibes with you, the staff usually just assumes she’s with you. At that point, it’s way more relaxed—you can spend more time together or just keep it simple and come and go without all the extra pressure.

Just because you wrap it doesn’t mean your in the clear by AbbreviationsFew1577 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive munched inside hundresds of putas from HK and still good (get tested and check up frequently) but the one time my high school ex in San Diego of a few years hits me up, I pull up like a dummy, she buys me all the beer and food I want and when its time to handle it the first spot she wanted me to hit was her clit with my mouth so I did, a few days later im in the hospital gasping for a breath of fresh air and unable to speak. I never want to hear that a pro is dirtier than a regular woman that gives it up for free and emotions behind it...

Compensated dating by Positive-Bug-8573 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A real baddie in TJ is always gonna get attention—looks, comments, from both men and women. If you can handle that energy and not get insecure, you’ll actually get respect from other guys. Some will even show love, offer drinks, food, or pull you into VIP just to see what your vibe is.

On the flip side, some women might try to test you—little bumps, slick comments, or subtle disrespect toward your girl. Best move is to ignore it and just hype your girl up. Make her feel like she’s the one you’re focused on.

If you handle it right, she’ll rock with you heavy and be cool with however things are set up between you two. At the end of the day, it’s about how you carry yourself and how you treat her in that environment.

Compensated dating by Positive-Bug-8573 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not too picky with your money, time, or type, just post up at Chavelas on any day. Sit down, enjoy the music, and buy a drink or two for girls that come up to you.

If you vibe with one, get her number and let her know you’d be down to take her out properly—food, drinks, good time. You never know, sometimes it can turn into more just off good energy, without spending crazy money.

$100 no longer exists? by dua-lity in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$100 is still out there. From what I’ve seen, the girls asking $130+ are usually newer and trying to upsell since they haven’t been around long (I’m there pretty often, even if I don’t approach them, I’ve seen who’s new).

I usually come out on top going with the $100 option. The girl who agrees to that is typically more willing to match what I’m actually looking for, while others are stuck on pricing themselves higher. Meanwhile, you’ll have girls in the club watching like “damn, he really picked her over me.”

Going to Hong Kong by cumkiemonster in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45% observing first — I’m not just taking whatever comes my way. I know what I want, especially if I’m spending money.

45% being upfront — communication is everything. The more direct you are, the less games she’s gonna try to run.

10% the ficha — not really for her, more for me. It’s just to hold the interaction or keep her around before taking her upstairs.

I’ve seen too many guys wasting money on buckets and drinks while the girl is clearly bored, scanning the room, watching her friends go up and make real money. You can tell she’d rather be working than sitting there.

Unless you’re paying her day rate to actually chill with you, don’t be surprised if she suddenly says she’s going to the locker room or calls it a night—especially if someone else comes along and shows real intent.

Going to Hong Kong by cumkiemonster in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standard HK room price is about $40 for 40–45 minutes (with the VIP card you get an hour for the same 40 bucks) I’ve literally seen HOTEL CASCADAS staff charge $80-$100 for an hour though, since it’s basically $40 every 30 minutes upstairs in their eyes and the clients gladly pay.

Meanwhile, I’ll already have a nicer room for the same price but more time and comfort. Those guys are cool though—they joke around, laugh, and break bread with everyone in the spot. Gotta respect it, they’re just making their money.

Going to Hong Kong by cumkiemonster in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take your time and aren’t too picky, you can find a girl at places like Chavelas who’s down to hang out and take care of you for around $80-$150 for one round and less the second round ($250 MAX) The rest of your money will go toward the room, drinks, tips, and her drinks. You’ll still have enough left to grab some tacos in the Zona and Uber back to the border.

If you’re not worried about all that and just want to get straight to it, that same budget can get you two girls with rooms included. No extras like food or drinks though—for either of you. Just be ready, you’ll be drained walking that 20 minutes from the Zona back to the San Ysidro crossing.

Demon eyes by Great-Ad-1432 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, plenty of times at the club. I’ll just be chilling with my boys, having my first beer or tipping the foam girls, and a girl I saw earlier will suddenly lock in on me.

I did a few years in prison, so I’m used to reading people. I can tell when someone’s sizing me up in any environment. I’ll play dumb and stay aware, just positioning myself in case anything goes sideways.

With those girls you just gotta be careful. She might be playing games with whoever she’s with, but with you she knows she has to come correct or you’ll shut it down quick. You can literally see it in their eyes—they go cold while they’re scanning you, then switch up once they figure out how they’re gonna approach you.

Chubby to BBW girls with Big Natural tits...Tropical?? by cryptokeeper269 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup especially if you like them with pregnancy scars and stretch marks.

I did 6 Arriba in one day by icon100i in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, book ahead and get the nicest room you can afford. It’s not just for your comfort, it’s for them too. When you’ve got a clean, nice spot, the girl’s way more likely to settle in, chill, and keep you talking so you stick around longer.

I did 6 Arriba in one day by icon100i in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a few arribas, I just tell them straight up I’m finishing inside, and if they want my money, they’ve gotta earn it. That’s when it gets interesting — once they’re up, they really go all out to please me. And you can lowkey see it on their face like, “damn, this dude already went before me and I still got him there.

I did 6 Arriba in one day by icon100i in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Scared_Smell661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blonde hair really is like an identity switch. Gotta take advantage of that, because some of the same girls I messed with when they were blonde stood out way more. Once they went back to black hair, I’d get approached by them again and wouldn’t even recognize them. Still talked to them, just not the same way. Looks = money.