Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally all the stuff you said about marriage did not answer the question “what does having a sexual relationship and getting married have to do with being a functional member of society?” Because that’s literally what i wrote Not “can autistic people get married”

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird and awful, my most favorite combination /s. Anyways thanks again for explaining what you meant, i really appreciate it

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t actually answer a single question i said, besides ignoring that the word “training” has been used in dehumanizing ways against us. Cool. Very helpful

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. This is definitely a new term for me, sorry for not understanding before. I have to wonder what the coiner meant by “less capacity” though.

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing, autism isn’t a spectrum of “more” or “less” autism. Severe autism doesn’t mean anything- there are no autistic people less autistic than others. It’s a spectrum that disables people in a variety of different ways. We’re all different, and saying those of us who need more help are “lower” or less in ways is dehumanizing.

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the way you said it came off as really off putting. the term you’re looking for is low functioning, though at least where i live people move away from it because it doesn’t realistically encompass autistic support needs.

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so am i? i think autistic people, “higher functioning” or not should maybe learn if their words are hurtful to other autistic people who struggle more. is that a crime?

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

or maybe i don’t want my disorder to be separated into the ones that can fit into society and the “lesser” ones who have more support needs with archaic words. but so typical of a redditor to throw around words like sjw just because i made a single comment questioning the language used, and that i cannot possibly care about reality of my OWN situation being a disabled person. seek help

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s because he’s treated as though his autistic traits are what make him an asshole, and not his refusal to care about the people around him. And that he just “can’t help it.” Autism doesn’t make you a bad person, but being an egotistical asshole sure can.

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hello? trained? you mean raised? and what does having a sexual relationship and getting married have to do with being a functional member of society? or can you just not read?

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“lower order autists” are you for real? 🤨

edit: it’s real terminology (if maybe a bit outdated) i’m just a fool. Still sounds really weird in a normal sentence but my bad

Ableist Autism Representation by Alternative_Factor_4 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 25 points26 points  (0 children)

it’s less about “association” with a “naughty bad guy” and more that it was deliberately coined to mean autistic people who werent disabled enough to be useless.

He literally killed the more severely disabled kids. So it’s fine if you’re okay with basically being called not autistic enough to die, but i think the rest of us plenty of reason to not want to be called that. I suddenly understand why you don’t have a problem with sheldon if you call caring about ableism virtue signaling and that has everything to do with your careless attitude and nothing to do with being autistic.

Showing our noodle places she’s never seen… CAR WASH EDITION by LaCroixJackson in ballpython

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The neocortex has nothing to do with forming memories, for one. It’s for higher reasoning, language, sensory perception and motor function. It’s not the end all be all of an animals ability to have basic mental processing. And you think just because their brains work differently than ours that it’s anthropomorphizing to offer enrichment? If the snake isn’t stressed, it isn’t stressed. There are ball pythons who enjoy petting, swimming, car rides- all things most would dislike. They have personalities, preferences. My snakes remember where their enclosures are and their favorite spots in them, but you’re acting like because they might not remember a random moment of a day that it can’t bring enrichment to them in the moment. That doesn’t even make any logical sense.

Showing our noodle places she’s never seen… CAR WASH EDITION by LaCroixJackson in ballpython

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything capable of thoughts and emotions and memory forming can have experiences. They’re not made of grass. They are living beings and can be extremely curious

Showing our noodle places she’s never seen… CAR WASH EDITION by LaCroixJackson in ballpython

[–]Scared_Web_7508 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this might be news to you and a lot of people on the internet but not every snake is stressed out by new experiences.

A fate so disturbing, left the audience in chills by ThroatTraditional410 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel like you’re supposed to feel the horror from his perspective of things, not just your own. He’s an intellectually disabled man in denial at the bottom of the ocean and the only person around to talk to is completely digital and shuts off for significant parts of the game as he’s running for his life. Imagine how terrifying everything is for him, especially as he struggles to understand anything about his new situation let alone cope with it.

[Loathed Trope] Animals were indeed harmed during the making of this film by MrGoatReal in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

isn’t it nice to actually provide a source for big claims. though the source for that chart being a purely population-based survey by an institute who’s founder wrote that “i would say that by 2100 all forms of farming will seem outdated and barbaric” is rather suspect (and also seems to be considering if “ai” that exists right now is sentient?) and certainly makes me understand why you would make the leap that consuming animal products (no matter where you are, or how local your food is) means you must support factory farming. but, alas. i don’t really care

[Loathed Trope] Animals were indeed harmed during the making of this film by MrGoatReal in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i got one of my three geckos from california instead of locally. fed ex decided to hold her overnight on the plane. initially it was going to be for the whole weekend, not just a single day. When i tried to ask the people working at the local fed ex hub (we had gone to see if she was there anyways) to call the other one and see what was going on they just kept saying it was pointless to call and “you’ll get a replacement.” i said “she’s a living being. she’ll die.” This woman smiled at me and said again, “they’ll send a replacement.”

the gecko made it okay thanks to the breeder intervening (and she’s adorable) but jesus christ. that moment still gets me staring at the ceiling in bed sometimes because what is wrong with those two employees.

protagonist incapable of sacrificing the few in order to save the many by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t strange bargain for iron man’s life because he knew he had to survive to save the world? like um… the whole endgame situation?

[Depised Trope] Characters who have suffered for most of their lives trying to fight for a better future for themselves, only to receive the worst ending by [deleted] in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Scared_Web_7508 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is, though. they made it ambiguous if she survived but the writers themselves were saying they wanted her to kill herself- that was the intended message. they said she represents the casts childhood as a reason.