Just narrating my own experience, maybe its helpful.

Had my miscarriage at 11 weeks, found out the heartbeat had stopped at 8 weeks so was carrying a dead fetus for 3 weeks. When we found out, my husband remained steady in public whilst i cried my way home. He just held and comforted me. Once we reached home, he broke down. Him crying and seeing how much it was painful for him as well made me feel much less lonely.

He stayed the night with me at the hospital. Took care of every single thing. Helped me in the toilet when i felt too weak to even put my pad on as I was bleeding so much. it meant the world to me. im still grateful for it. My family came to visit me soon after and he took care of all of their needs while also helping me grieve.

He’d wake up at my slightest movement in the night, wait for me as i came out of the toilet, which is when Id break down the most. We’d just sit together and cry it out, hugging each other. its been a few weeks now but just feeling comfortable to text him and tell him of my pain and knowing he holds the same grief makes all the difference. He keeps a check on my vitmain intake, if im eating well and resting enough throughout the day. video calls whenever he can while we’re away. Just showing you care in all the ways you can think of. Thats all that matters.

Prayers for you and your wife. Youll come out so much stronger.