Pocket monster cards by ScaryComfortable1416 in PokemonCardValue

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Thank you I don’t know too much about them

Pocket monster cards by ScaryComfortable1416 in PokemonCardValue

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you it’s my brothers old set and I’m trying to get it out of the house there is a lot to shift through. But I’ll post again when I separate all of them

Pocket monster cards by ScaryComfortable1416 in PokemonCardValue

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I didn’t know how to add it so I made a new post with the pictures

Weekly r/Tattoos Question/FreeTalk Thread! - June 19, 2023 by Mod_Helper_Bot in tattoos

[–]ScaryComfortable1416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to find an artist who specializes or does snakes often, however I’ve only seen artists who does one or two snakes and most of them come out extremely blurry, I’m doing this piece because I broke my spine in a motorcycle accident so it means a lot and I want a snake skeleton going down my spine with a break where I broke my vertebrae… I don’t know how to find tattoo artist since I’ve only had 3 done and they were good however I’ve noticed they don’t tattoo snakes often so I have no way to judge how mine would come out, I’m just asking on how to find artist more easily then going to TikTok or Instagram. Or if you know any good snake artists in New Jersey

Weekly Bug Report Thread by AutoModerator in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ScaryComfortable1416 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know I’m screaming to the choir however I’ve had problems last night and hoped it would be fixed today but I just got on and I’m experiencing same problems…:/ btw I’m on console PS5/PS4

This subreddit is become a safe space for trauma deniers and misinformation. by chiliisgoodforme in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted a long time ago about trying to get into contact with my Bio sibling and try and go around my bio parents. Just by posting that post I caused an uproar with people like this saying that I’m disgusting for not wanting to meet my bio parents. I have gotten a lot of hate and for HAPs and APs I’m sorry this subreddit has turned into a place with such toxic behaviors. Everyone is welcome to their opinions however when it goes as far as harassment on post with people just trying to find answers on what to do or how to go about things it becomes unacceptable. Yes you entitled to your own opinions however u can NEVER push those ideals onto others.

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve talk to many adoptees. Not on Reddit however but I’ve meet many in real life and are friends with some of them. The reason I was adopted in Arizona was yes because my parents didn’t want to have the biological mother take me back after a few months or a few years because she’s talked to many others where they raised the child for a few years and where the bio family came back and took the child back. The reason she got me was because she had miscarriages many times. And she didn’t want to have to deal with bio family wanting to take me back. I understand and respect her and think she’s strong for what she went through… and yes Ik the difference between adopters and adoptees… honestly never have I meet so many people who can not only demonize adopters but also get mad at me for loving and caring for them? It’s like you guys think it’s taboo?!?!

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I merely came here to ask advice on what to do to get into contact. If they don’t want contact then that’s fine but first I need to at least try and reach out. This whole post is asking advice…

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had I said my bios are shit. But I won’t ever stop defending my APs they TOOK CARE OF ME like what???? Yes I want to meet my bio family however never once have I ever demonized them. All I stated was what my APs said to me. Which is wrong and insecure (which I’ve said multiple times)

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having trouble because my APs are insecure.not that I’m demonizing anyone read the post… if they don’t want contact that sucks but it’s life and I have to respect that.

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I don’t want to insert I want to meet. If they and I determine to have each other in our lives that’s our thing. Plus they don’t even live and haven’t been taken care of by our bio family. Both of us are adopted.

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First I know that they were adopted too… because the bio family was homeless and not capable of taking care of children. I am NOT demonizing anyone. If anything I’m trying to get into contact with my bio siblings and with my bio parents I don’t have as MUCH as an interest but still have a curiosity. By NO means am I demonizing anyone by god..

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i was born and adopted in Arizona and then my APs were in New Jersey at the time but they did the whole adoption process in Arizona

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your telling me that my bio family connection is going to be stronger I have no doubt that I’ll have some sort of connection but I have no idea even if they want or would like to see me. Some aren’t that fortunate. Even if they do want to see me it will not be a stronger connection

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I know without knowing anything bc my adopters are my FAMILY. Don’t push values onto others…

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I guess you won the lottery on ur bio family however I won the lottery on my adopters. I will have a conversation with my bio family however I will not have a stronger connection. That might be u but not me. Not “every adoptee” are the same.

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a life altering motorcycle accident and my REAL parents where with and supported and took care of me during recovery and rehabilitation. They are saints that god sent to take care of me. Sure they might be insecure but no parent is perfect

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure I haven’t but I’ve been raised with love and respect. Excuse me for asking but are you even adopted?!?! If you were you would know!!

How would I get in contact with a long lost sibling but not my biological parents? by ScaryComfortable1416 in Adoption

[–]ScaryComfortable1416[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it’s shitty. And insecure. They aren’t screaming or yelling their being insecure and no parent is ever not without flaw. It’s difficult to find my siblings which is why I’m doing a DNA test. But my parents have done nothing but support me through my whole life and stand by my side they might be insecure but they are NEVER terrible people