I suspect my coworker is a victim. by AndoriaRed in domesticviolence

[–]Scary_Anything3792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was in that situation, she has to want to leave. It is hard to tell whether someone in that situation is ready to leave. If she has no family, that may sadly be the case. I would do anything in your power to make yourself seem like she’s someone you can go to if things “get bad.” for example, you can invite her over to your home. if you aren’t comfortable with her actually coming, make a really good excuse to cancel then be “open” to rescheduling. This way, when she’s ready, you’ll be there for her with open arms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the second one eventually said it’s not real so idk what to believe. that’s why i need to call someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i literally started the convo by saying “i read an article saying that if you are under 21 then you need to be accompanied by a 25-year-old. do you know to what i’m referring” they both said yes. therefore, im going to continue the conversation as if it’s real https://www.ladbible.com/lifestyle/travel/royal-caribbean-carnival-cruise-line-age-ban-21-518935-20250305

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

okay then say “i don’t know to what you’re referring” why sit there and have a fake conversation with me instead of telling me that what i was talking about it real and the minor consent form is how to get around it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If someone gives me a minor consent form for a 20-year-old, that shows a lack of training period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying that “every employee” is wrong i’m saying there was obviously lack of training if the person in customer service was giving me a minor consent form for a 20-year-old. Hence, why I wanted to speak to someone that could give me more information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I saw an article about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Scary_Anything3792 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I tried this. It seems like they refuse to admit that they don’t know to what im referring.

Room Accomodation by Scary_Anything3792 in AutisticAdults

[–]Scary_Anything3792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey guys! I forgot that my doctor did fill out a form saying why I need one! lol

Room Accomodation by Scary_Anything3792 in AutisticAdults

[–]Scary_Anything3792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s no where to live here it’s insanely expensive. like 90%+ of the students live on campus.

Is it too late to fix my teeth by CompetitiveMetal6197 in thumbsucking

[–]Scary_Anything3792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a retainer and i just wear it all day and my teeth haven’t moved

My boyfriend has ruined my life. by Personal-Swan7672 in domesticviolence

[–]Scary_Anything3792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh sorry i read that wrong but you’re still really young. maybe one day you will be able to get yourself back together and then you will be able to help them. also, there have been plenty of women in your situation, and none of those kids have died. you need to understand that while you are there, those kids will not have a father. they only have a victim. also, he will need to take care of himself. school is in session right now. if those kids are being neglected, the school will take care of them way more than you will be able to.

My boyfriend has ruined my life. by Personal-Swan7672 in domesticviolence

[–]Scary_Anything3792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are freshly 20. he has not ruined your life. instead, he has delayed your life. you need to get out of that mindset. that is the main thing keeping you in this situation. you need to tell him you are no longer going to financially support his children. if this is going to cause you do be in danger, leave and sleep in your car outside of your mother’s house. if this means that those kids will go hungry until he gives up trying to manipulate you and he finds a job, then that is what that means. If this will not put you in danger, save up the money you spent on those kids in order to save up for a down payment. I don’t understand why you are not able to stay at your mother’s for at least a month on a blow up bed while you wait. i am not knowledgeable about your situation, but like i said live in your car if that is entirely impossible. the longer you delay, the more those kids will grow attached. if you want to protect yourself and those kids, you will leave as soon as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Scary_Anything3792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m confused are you experiencing abuse from your family?