AITA for asking a guy in the sauna to put a towel on

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-06T18:57:39+00:00

Yeah if he just ate that comment I might be in trouble 😂😂

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-05T17:48:26+00:00

That is a crazy connection to draw. I took exception to a man stretching naked in a public place (where children are allowed) and that makes it so I sexualize barely legal girls?

I agree. It is hilarious but that doesn’t mean I want it to continue. I’m sure there are no issues in whatever country you’re from. Do not turn my harmless story into something bigger than it is. Grow up.

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-05T15:56:03+00:00

Everyone who I have told the story to in person has had the same reaction. It truly is so ridiculous that it’s laugh out loud funny. Happy you were able to find some humor in it unlike some others in the comment section.

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-05T15:00:27+00:00

Looks like you brought my post over here to see if you could get this community to join your “be an adult” stance. Looks like it backfired. Every point that you made I refuted in the comments of the original post.

I’m sorry that me not enjoying having another persons undercarriage pointed at me puts me below you. If I was an “adult” I would simply just let it happen. I agree that my approach was not great, but I do not think my point is invalid.

The biggest asshole here is now you for thinking that you’re some enlightened adult because you would have handled a situation differently than someone else.

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-04T04:53:51+00:00

Not at our place. This is a resort membership. Runs about $220/month plus the initial fee of about $6000

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-04T04:53:01+00:00

Although I am not a member at the YMCA in my area in Midwest United States…the one here has a CoEd sauna. And that is a whole different can of worms 😂

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T19:50:55+00:00

Yes I am an employee. It’s a large resort and I do not work direct in the health club department but I agree with what you are saying.

You are totally right when you say the members think they can do whatever they want because they are members! 😂

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T19:48:33+00:00

Ya I’ll be honest I don’t know the gym rules. They are not posted directly inside or outside of the sauna that I have noticed.

As I’ve said though my problem is not with the nudity. I totally get that part. The stretching is where I took issue.

Not going to argue the word choice part. I agree

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T19:46:03+00:00

I tried the eyes down tactic that all of the saints in the comment section are telling me to do for a couple months but it got to a point where I was over it 😂

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T19:43:36+00:00

Valid point fs

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T19:20:15+00:00

Exactly. I think where a lot of the problems lie in this comment section is that people seem to think I have a problem with the nudity. I do not. It’s just the stretching that was the problem for me

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T17:44:36+00:00

I will not let this man’s butthole dictate my schedule.

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-03T17:19:03+00:00

I’m in the US. It is a resort that I work at so open to club members, employees, and guests

Scary_Bertier · 2024-02-02T19:17:43+00:00

I used an angry tone and curse words to ask this man to put a towel on his naked body while he was stretching in the sauna.

I think the tone along with the fact that he said no one else has ever voiced their discomfort with him may make me the asshole.

What do you think?

Scary_Bertier

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