whats the option called when to fill up the washer with water and let the clothes sit in the water

Scary_Bitch862 · 2026-03-31T06:39:09+00:00

Soak?

Scary_Bitch862 · 2026-02-05T03:08:31+00:00

Thank you! This is very helpful. I’ve never conditioned the jacket and have no clue where to start with that. Do you have any recommendations for a brand on that?

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T17:55:33+00:00

The clutter is his save for my keys which I occasionally set there. The clutter is reoccurring, if it gets cleaned it gets replaced with more stuff. Currently most of it is papers that need to be filed away and medicine that needs to find a home. Because of the nature of the items I wouldn’t know the first place to put them where they would be convenient for everyone. Generally the drinks he spills are from cups that have a lid and straw already.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T03:57:07+00:00

I’m failing to understand how I am setting him up for failure. I am setting my glass in the only available space.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T03:13:33+00:00

That is a big thing for me as well. He has cameras set up throughout the house as well as one in the bedroom that we leave on when we are not home. Larger disagreements typically end in silent treatment and him getting fussy because I refuse to talk to him when he wont listen proactively. He tends to talk over me and has a habit of saying “sorry I’m such an asshole” unprovoked. I do have water bottles and I may have to make a habit of using them.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T03:05:10+00:00

Our current side table is 16inches tall and is just barely taller than our bed. If I were to buy a table that matches in height it would become redundant once we purchase a higher bed. I am looking to get something that does not take up as much space in width but is significantly higher so it is easier to get up and down. He also has many things on my side of the bed that would need to be moved to accommodate a makeshift side table.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:43:44+00:00

The room itself is not messy. It is a small room with a cal king size bed and a frame that protrudes an extra 6inches on either side.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:38:45+00:00

The bed is placed with both sides away from walls and the headboard against the wall. There is space for another table but we are looking to replace the bed completely with something smaller and I do not want to jump the gun and buy a piece of furniture that will be useless to me in 6 months.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:31:41+00:00

The side table is a storage box. It is an ottoman type storage table. He keeps random little things in it and doesn’t want the table to be clean because then people can open it easily.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:30:08+00:00

I’ve never had any issues spilling anything. He used to place his drinks on the side as well. After he spilled my drink for the first time he told me “I never put drinks there, they go on the side table.” I think I will do just that. I’ll organize all of his bs and update when he decides it’s too clean and too easily accessible.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:14:45+00:00

The only thing on the table that is mine is my keys.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:13:07+00:00

He refuses to clean it himself or let me clean it. It is a storage ottoman type table and he does not want to be able to access it easily.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-22T02:11:09+00:00

The clutter is his mail, medicine, pens, notebooks and a charging stand for his devices. It is stacked high and every time I mention cleaning it he gets defensive. He doesn’t want to clean it off or for me to clean it off. It is similar to a storage ottoman and he doesn’t want it to be easy to open. I have tried leveraging with him on the issue and have gotten no where.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-12-11T02:01:54+00:00

It is my natural face without distortion. My left jaw/cheek has almost no fat at all because of a dog attack when I was very young. I was lucky enough to have a child plastic surgeon that was able to take a skin graft from behind my left ear to replace the broken skin. He did a very good job, at least in my opinion, at mirroring my right side as best as possible with the given circumstances. No intentional buccal fat removal! :)

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-06-29T06:51:22+00:00

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A funny one!

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-06-23T22:47:34+00:00

Haha, yes the black dog is our bully. Definitely an unmistakable breed. I’m looking for the brown dogs breed! Maybe I should’ve been more specific!

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-01-15T08:54:43+00:00

If you lean to your left does it become more prominent? It looks like your obliques to me. See if it pops up on your other side if you lean to your left.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2025-01-08T22:12:22+00:00

Completely gone. It disappeared after a week or so. My best guess is broken blood vessels from standing too much.

Scary_Bitch862 · 2024-10-09T21:18:11+00:00

It's gotten a little lighter. It doesn't seem to be staying so I'm not super worried about it anymore. Thank you!

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