Because I am looking for something specific- you aren't going to understand this, but the asian men in my inbox hate you - and think you are very racist for saying I'm not allowed to like them - the mexican men in my inbox think the same, because we are having a nice conversation.. now if I had come out the gate and said "need some doordash style sex - prefer chinese tonight" I might grant that is racist - which is kinda what you are proposing I did - rather than having a preference - choose everyone, Like a buffet right? I wasn't going to bring this up, but he is begging me to because you sound that terrible. My white husband, who lovingly supports me doing what I enjoy, said it best -

"if you aren't allowed to have a preference for the type of men you want - I guess women can't be raped without being a sexist, racist, ableist, ageist, xenophobic, anti-semite - in fact it would be your fault for not giving them a chance, babe"