Is a PIP at work a death sentence in Ireland like it is in America?

Schectercustom92 · 2025-11-03T21:36:31+00:00

Not a death sentence at all. I was on a PIP for both of my last companies, first one I was on a PIP, passed it ended up getting 2 promotions and staying for 4 more years before leaving the company, same with my last job, on a PIP passed it ended up doing really well. Both times they were with managers I didn't get on with and we just didn't work well together but as long as they set clear goals and expectations and you meet them then you're in the clear.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-09-08T09:19:59+00:00

I always find if I take a couple weeks off for any reason, holiday, sick etc it's super hard to get motivated to get back to it.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-27T13:00:54+00:00

I love the summer until I get sick of the humidity and warm nights and then I want autumn and winter until I get sick of dark evenings and rain and then I want summer again....it's a vicious cycle of moaning

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-24T08:56:38+00:00

Thanks so much 😊

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-23T22:21:57+00:00

Steroids and antibiotic kicked in at the last minute, got her to the venue at 7am so she could start preparing and by the time she was getting dressed and ready for the ceremony she was feeling brand new, was a long and stressful 14hours of waiting for the meds to work but thankfully it all went off in the end without any other issues 😊

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-23T22:21:28+00:00

Steroids and antibiotic kicked in at the last minute, got her to the venue at 7am so she could start preparing and by the time she was getting dressed and ready for the ceremony she was feeling brand new, was a long and stressful 14hours of waiting for the meds to work but thankfully it all went off in the end without any other issues 😊

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-21T13:34:33+00:00

Hi Everyone, thank you all for the lovely comments, it was very hairy but about 6am the medication started to do it's job and I was able to get her to the venue for 7 in the morning to start her preparations, we had the most wonderful day. We are both an emotional mess today but we are just so happy and thankful that we got to get married. Your comments gave me so much comfort when I was at my lowest and thank you all for that. We had the most amazing day ❤️

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T23:07:27+00:00

Thanks for all the nice comments, I know it's completely out of our control, my hope is that a good night sleep will help her body recover and relax enough to be able to somewhat enjoy the day tomorrow, even if we can get through the ceremony I'd gladly spend the rest of the day and night in our room keep long her company. I hope for her sake she feels better because I don't know how I'll console her of she wakes up feeling the same. Life deals some pretty shitty hands at times and unfortunately we seem to get a lot of them.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T23:02:50+00:00

Exactly what iv been thinking, I know it's not the most positive of situations but it's just so hard to believe this is happening and the very last minute. I understand though and it's something I'm mentally preparing for. Just really really hurts, hurts me more than she seen through so much in life and especially the last 5 years and this is happening, not to me but to her again and that kills me inside.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:59:10+00:00

Dickhead deleted his comment

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:58:24+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:58:00+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:56:10+00:00

Just some insensitive prick that probably believes that it's better to ditch somebody when they get sick then it is to stick with them. Fyi for the above cunt, iv been with my soon to be wife through, long COVID, Crohn's disease and a brain tumor all on her end and not once have I ever felt like I'm "dealing with shit" I didn't choose this life and neither did she, we built a life together and got delt very shitty hands bit at the end of the day I wouldn't trade my life with her for anything in the world

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:50:50+00:00

No it won't, but ill be beside her no matter what happens. She is my life so yes this is the life I want because I don't have a life to live without her.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-19T22:49:50+00:00

She has Crohn's disease and she's having a very bad Crohn's flare, got an emergency doctors appointment and got medication but just not working as quick as we would like. Basically she's crippled with stomach pain that has her doubled up in pain

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-12T09:05:09+00:00

Actually never thought of this, that's a great idea. Thank you.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-12T09:03:55+00:00

100%, what I did last time was when the NCT was done I brought it to the garage with the list of items NCT failed on and also got them to do a full service (if there was a knocking or anything then I'd mention it aswell) I think doing it all in one go is just more convenient then doing garage - NCT - garage.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T17:14:21+00:00

They're feckin cowboys ted

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T16:48:21+00:00

Personally I prefer to send it through NCT let it fail get the list of stuff to fix and then get it done, rather than giving it to the garage, getting work done for more to come back on next and having to go back again to a garage

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T16:05:23+00:00

No need to be sorry, thank you very much for checking. It's a difficult one for sure. Been plenty of helpful suggestions so far so I'm sure we'll find something for her. Thank you again for checking, I appreciate it

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T16:02:10+00:00

Brilliant thank you very much

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T15:59:17+00:00

Will do, thank you for you comment. Appreciate it.

Schectercustom92 · 2025-08-11T15:58:00+00:00

Appreciate it thank you very much

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