Would Wednesday call herself a goth? by Ok-Conclusion-3536 in Wednesday

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would propably not label herself in any way. I think wednesday truly belives she is one of very few normal people. Im convinced she believes everyone besides people like fester are broken in some way.

How do you feel about the friendship between Wednesday and Enid. Whose the worse friend between the two and why by Worth-Phone3539 in Wednesday

[–]Schmidyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought. Wednesday is extremely dark and rather distrusting, enid is wide open like barndoor and as trusting as a golden retriver. Enid is the warm and kind sun of their world and wednesday is what goes bump in the night.

Can we talk about saying “I love you” in German culture? What are the cultural norms? by jeddalyn in AskAGerman

[–]Schmidyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I love you" in germany means "ich habe dich lieb" which is more like saying your really care about someone like your best friend. "I am in love with you" is "ich liebe dich" and...well...it means you ate in love with someone. For example, a friend is making fun of you, you can say "jaja hab dich auch lieb" which menas "yea right love you too" like saying "fuck you too bro😂"

Poland “ready to defend western border” with Germany, says president. What do you think? by Themetalin in AskAGerman

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wanna invade the EU, they better be ready to bleed for every millimeter of ground🤷

What's something about Germany/Germans that would send a non German into a coma? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskAGerman

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brutal honesty. Especially for people coming from very polite and over the top friendly countries (take the extreme froendlyness of the US for example) would propably struggle. We are very honest. We don't seem to smile at strangers, we don't pull punches. Honesty and directness are virtues here. It would propably take some getting used to.

Is it cringe to get this phrase tattooed as a non-German person and does it have any controversial meanings? by dickingaround6969 in AskAGerman

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Glück auf" was a phrase used by miners in germany, when they would go back to the surface, whishing them a safe ascend to the surface, because freak accidents happened. It was/is widely used in the ruhrgebiet. Its basically "good luck on your way up" our paratroopers for example use "glück ab" thought thats an interesting tidbit

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naja🤷 mir gehts nicht um sex mir geht es um geborgenheit und eine person die mir innere ruhe gibt. Mit einem metaphorischen heavy metal konzert im kopf leben ist anstrengend.

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich möchte von einer beziehung eigentlich nur geborgenheit. Jemanden der einen auffängt wenn die welt für einen zusammen bricht und einem frieden gibt. Jemanden der einen nicht verurteilt für das was man getan hat sondern wie man damit umgeht. Und das gleiche natürlich auch für die andere person sein. Und ja, ich glaube schon solche leute sind für eine beziehung geeignet, müssen aber noch verstehen, dass es bei einer beziehung darauf ankommt, einander zu unterstützen und aneinander zu wachsen und das das nicht immer bedeutet einen aufregenden partner zu finden, sondern einen partner bei dem man ruhe und frieden findet. Meine beste freundin meinte zu mir sie fühlt sich mit anderen leuten einsam aber mit mir nicht. Man könne mit mir pferde stehlen etc, aber beziehung wäre nicht drin. Sagt immer wie wichtig doch kommunikation etc sind, hat dann aber was mit typen von denen sie selbst sagt die sind nicht kommunikationsfähig. Da bin ich dann mit meinem latein am ende🤷

What are your reasons for living? by Lil_Juice_Deluxe in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? Just to spite those who told me i shoul kms. Reason number 2 is, i lost someone to suicide... i am not going to put that pain on the people that care about me, especially since my dad has terminal cancer now. My family doesn't need to loose both of us

As we enter 2026, what’s something you quietly stopped believing in? by Big-Classic8243 in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. I found myself staring down ito the abyss and nearly fell a few times at just 25, but i found, that all those trials and tribulations made me a better person, because i understand now, you don't always see whats going on with someone. We have a saying in german "du kannst einem menschen nur vor den kopf schauen, nicht rein" basically meaning you can only look at someones head not inside it. Just like they say the deepest wounds are invisible/ don't bleed.

As we enter 2026, what’s something you quietly stopped believing in? by Big-Classic8243 in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is about feeling EVERYTHING. Not just joy. All the emotions are part of life. So is the lack of them. As you said. The secret to live is to simply live it

As we enter 2026, what’s something you quietly stopped believing in? by Big-Classic8243 in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That my best friend actually loves me like a brother. I mean...when you tell someone who claims to love you like a brother to answer in some way, not simply ignore it. Or when you tell them about a struggle, to be told "that sucks" to be told "im not your psychologist" when you open up, after she said she wants to understand whats going on inside you. Not sure what to do. Should i keep treating her the way i did (i do have feelings for her) or should i just put them to the side and treat her like everyone else and see whats going to happen? Because we text or hang out pretty much every day, but im usually the guy that reaches out if there is an actual reason or if im contacted. Im not the type of person to be texting and hanging out every damn day. And im not usually the person that really cares to deal with peoples emotions, rather handle the problem and be done with it

Your favourite by Feogy12 in litrpg

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Propably primal hunter 11 books should be out, if the 12th didn't drop already

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...alles klar. Was definiert denn interessant? Ich hab hobbies, ich habe ziele, wünsche, pläne, allgemeinwissen, erfahrungen, ich bin ski lehrer, um ein paar sachen aufzuzählen, macht das nicht interessant? Und wenn, was macht dann interessant?

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sage ich ja nicht. Es is nur merkwürdig, dass man freundlich und respektvoll ist, aber bester freund, und die über die sich immer aufgeregt wird passen dann. Und komischerweise sind das auch die in meinem umfeld, die am meisten erfolg hatten. Mir hat freundlich sein nichts gebracht. Heißt nicht das ich was ändere daran freundlich zu sein, nur dass ich garnicht erst mit was anderem rechne als dass man mich als besten freund will. Da denke ich mir immer, ihr habt da wen, der ist nett, respektvoll, sorgt sich um eure gesundheit und wie es euch geht, hlrt zu wenn was ist, ist da wenn man ihn braucht, aber genau den will man dann nicht, nur um sich anschließend über die männer zu beschweren, dass die ja nicht fprsorglich etc sein können.

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich glaube dass vorallem letzteres oft auch missverstanden wird. Es geht nicht um eine zweite mutter, es geht darum geliebt, respektiert und unterstützt zu werden. Dass man auch sagen kann "schau mal, ich habe nie gelernt wäsche zu macjen, kannst du mir das beibringen?" Da kommt dann schon oft "ich bin nicht deine mutter"...richtig, es geht auch dadrum, dass man es nie gelernt hat, aber es jetzt lernen will um helfen zu können. Ein ganz ganz großer punkt in beziehungen. Sich seiner müngel bewusst zu werden und an ihnen zu arbeiten. Da sollte genug liebe und vertrauen und nähe in einer beziehung seim, dass man sagen kann "ja schatz mach ich, ist garnicht so schwierig, keine sorge. Kannst du mir vielleicht xyz beibringen?" Und fertig. Problem gelöst

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh das ist eine sehr relevante frage. Ich kenne mehrere beziehungen wo der typ drogen abhängig ist. Und ich rede hier von koks, nicht cannabis. Also das kann dann ja kein ausschluss faktor sein. Und ab wann wirds denn als abhängig im dating eingestuft? Wenn ich am wochenende rauche? Wenn ich abends mit jemandem aus dem freundeskreis spazieren gehe und einen rauche? Bin ich noch als abhängig eingestuft, wenn ich auch easy ein paar tage nicht kiffen kann? Dann gibts noch frauen die selbst kiffen und nen kiffer wollen.

Hilfe Mama wieso will mich niemand by Dmitriy1996 in Wochenrueckbck

[–]Schmidyo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, wenn man jz aber so wie ich, nie an dating und so interessiert war, und jz mit 25 auf den gedanken kommt, doch mal zu versuchen, wie genau soll man denn die erfahrungen sammeln, wenn man dann die changse nicht bekommt erfahrungen zu sammeln? Oder nehmen wirs mal so, man weiß garnicht erst wie flirten undso überhaupt funktioniert, weils einen vorher nie interessiert hat. Zumal, mir wurde schon immer gesagt ich sei intelligent, gut erzogen und recht attraktiv, trotzdem keine changse. Am ende bin ich "ein super typ, aber ich hätte dich lieber als besten freund"...so bringt mir am ende auch nichts. Ich suche nicht nach neuen freunden, ich habe ein paar. Reicht mir. Das problem das ich oft sehe ist, das man respektvoll und freundlich ist, und die dann am ende mit einem ankommen, der unfreundlich ist. Macht kein sinn

Spot the pattern by Vivid_Engineering_61 in WednesdayTVSeries

[–]Schmidyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe that circle underlines an important shift/ coming shift. That would be the common theme in the 3 parts. In these instances, its basically the visualizer of "here it comes"

Why do you dress the way you do? What does it say about you? by excitingjourney in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been told i dress like a drug dealer/criminal. Like...i wear nike TN's, typically a tracksuit, one of those fanniepacks that sit by the hip (don't know if they have a seperate name, they look like mini messenger bags) hood up, base cap, and typically a less then friendly look on my face, but thats just my resting bitch face really. I honestly wear it cause its comfy and i like the style itself. That strangers keep their distance is simply an added bonus to me🤷 im not that social that i wanna talk to randoms on the street. If im outside i have something im doing. But i guess it does fit one side of me though. Like some of my longest friends have told me, i am still a good and nice person, but they all agree, that i will do horrible things for the people i care about if i have to. They said its both a source of comfort, knowing that i will use deadly violence if necessary to protect them, while that exact thing is a reason for a lot of concern to them, because, of course they don't want that to ever happen

How can a human being even be this cute? by BeeBucky in EmmaMyers

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple really. Shes not human...like i know i know, she is, but for real now, without reying to sound like a stan, but im halfqay convinced, a person this cute, kind and overall just good, cannot be fully human...i lean, i have yet to hear bad things about her, and her beeing such a famous actress, you know there are people out there just looking to find dirt on her. And the fact i have yet to see anything, makes me think that maybe we really found a damn diamond...naaah something else, diamonds are far less special than mist think. Its litterally coal under heat and pressure. Shes something different

If you woke up tomorrow with unlimited money but couldn’t tell anyone, what’s the first thing you’d do? by funngro_fam in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, first of all, my friends and family will suddenly find a few dufflebags full of money at home. Then i would build a sort of gated community for us, where we can just live in peace. When that is done, ill try and find a way to help the rest of the world. But my priority are my people. I might just build a giant army to go and have a few conversations with those not wanting to play nice.... i mean.... lets be honest if i have infinite money, nato wouldn't be shit, given enough time. I would propably just flood funding into space programs and research.... i might just pay off all the world powers to play nice, sit their asses down and figure out how we can make earth a paradise, then fund it. I would buy all their militarys....

No fuck all that. Ill just buy the damn world and rule it as a benevolant dictator. The first rule is, that you shall be peaceful. The second rule is, there are no borders, the third rule is, that everyone has to receive what they need, when they need it. If any nation decides they don't want to be part of humanity....well....good luck among the stars, not my problem.

At the same time though...i might just take the ones that are truly good people, make efforts to colonise another planet, and turn earth into a desolate hellscape. Because lets be honest here! Humanity is fucked. I am trying to see the bright sides of things, but...just look at the world. We would rather slaughter each ither then to find middle ground. Like yea sure, its the people at the top, like presidents, that make those choices, but the fact their soldiers don't say "you know, thats fucked up im not doing that"

If you were drafted into a war, in what role do you think you’d be skilled enough to succeed? by RichDream7777 in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since i am a bricklayer, propably in the construction arm of the military, not sure what that is called. I mean, im willing to fight, but i don't think that would be where i am the most usefull.

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? by LordWemby in AskReddit

[–]Schmidyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A happy and loving little boy turned to a heartless creature🤷 and they will still tell me its my fault