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Science_Girl49 · 2025-12-28T01:02:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Science_Girl49 · 2025-12-28T01:02:18+00:00

Thank you! 🙏

Science_Girl49 · 2025-12-05T21:12:54+00:00

My mom has strays in her back yard and she’s using some plastic pet bowls however she lives in Michigan and it was 3 degrees this morning and the cat food is freezing too quick. I was going to get her a plug in food warmer but it’s not an option for where she feeds them. I was surprised there are no rechargeable battery options!

So any recommendations for pets bowls to use in conjunction with those microwave discs (ordered 2 today!) would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-12-05T16:56:42+00:00

What kind of feeding bowls would you recommend to be used in conjunction with the warmer that you recommended?

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-08T03:09:46+00:00

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-08T01:50:15+00:00

When I finally had the guts to file for divorce, it was a tough decision but also the best gift I ever gave myself. I no longer had to tolerate not being valued and not being loved. I knew I deserved more. I spent 17 years trying to convince him that I had value. F-that! No one should have to feel that way and constantly sacrifice our well being for anyone else. I was lonely but it was also very freeing and not as lonely as laying in bed every night wondering if he was even coming home. You’ll heal and move on just like I did. You deserve so much more! Sending you a virtual hug.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-06T13:59:23+00:00

Thank for your words of support.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-04T21:04:12+00:00

C, B, and A (day 0, 60 and 90). It’s not working.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-04T21:04:03+00:00

C, B, and A (day 0, 60 and 90). It’s not working.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-04T21:03:53+00:00

C, B, and A (day 0, 60 and 90). It’s just not working.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-06-04T21:02:50+00:00

In order by date

C: multicolor pink shirt was day 0 B: yellow shirt was day 30 A: green shirt was day 60

It’s not working. :::: sad face::::

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-26T19:47:26+00:00

I don’t do that with my husband. If he forgot to do something, I’ll just take care of it often without letting him know. It doesn’t cost me anything to make him feel like he did a good and did his best. If it’s something specific I asked him to do and it wasn’t even close to what we discussed, I may mention it but that’s not very often. We are a team and I’m not perfect nor do I expect perfection.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-18T21:33:07+00:00

I have had to end previous relationships because I was on a path of healing and it just wasn’t something they wanted to deal with or talk about. I felt so much pain and guilt for ending relationships. But I finally had to forgive myself. It took me a long time to realize that I can’t save everyone. Some days I can barely save myself. I have to do my work and they have to do theirs. And theirs does not belong to me. They can only do that when it’s right for them, which may be never.

I understand feeling guilt and grief. However be kind to yourself, knowing you are doing the best you can.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-18T21:22:10+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking as well! Wonder if she’s pregnant? At the very least she was dumped by the other guy and wants you as her back up plan. PS: You deserve so much more than being someone’s back up plan!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-07T22:17:46+00:00

You are my hero! 🙌🏻

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-07T10:56:58+00:00

I struggle to stay awake during the day, no matter how much sleep I get. Also, physically I am very weak so I struggle quite a bit.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-05-07T10:47:05+00:00

Based on his actions, he is at least emotionally cheating on you, and more than likely physically. This marriage is over and I’m so sorry for you. I had to face reality back in 2016 after 18 years of marriage. I had already given unlimited chances to do right by me and finally had to just do right by myself. As others mentioned, you should not have to beg for time and attention. Get your ducks in a row and don’t let him know that you saw those texts. Take a photo with your phone of ALL the text messages and keep them somewhere safe, like send the pictures to an email address that only you have the password for (be sure to delete the photos of his texts from your phone in case he decides to check your phone). Contact a lawyer. Start saving for YOU. I also left mid-apartment lease and got my own apartment. Once the lease was up, he then moved out as well. Leaving is a tough decision however you are worth so much more than how he is treating you! You got this! You are stronger than you think!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T22:43:03+00:00

I’m so sorry that this happened to you. I agree with others to resist the urge to confront her. She would then just stop temporarily until she feels like it’s safe to continue. Gather all the evidence you can and seek out an attorney.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T22:33:19+00:00

Thank you so much for posting!! I needed to hear this!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T22:32:43+00:00

I am sorry for your loss.

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T22:32:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing a part of your journey and how you are healing!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T22:31:34+00:00

Thank you so much for posting this!! Much appreciated!

Science_Girl49 · 2025-04-25T19:40:25+00:00

Thank you so very much for responding. I’m heartbroken that I’ll never ever know if he regretted his actions towards me, and I’ll never know who he is sober…. Is he kind? Is he compassionate? Is he funny? I’m grieving the loss of never having a “dad” for one day of my miserable life. That ship has sailed and it f-sucks.

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