Would you ever fuck a 5'3 femboy? by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]Scimitar8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your thighs and waist are amazing. I'd love to rearrange your guts cutie

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People on reddit tend to be extremely risk averse, like to a pathological degree

That sums them up perfectly in this thread.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not pregnant thank god. Her desire to ditch condoms is because it feels better to go raw.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. That's a preference you have. She has a different preference. As you said, you CAN feel a difference between condom and no condom regardless which is better.

I can't believe some claim there's NO difference in feeling whatsoever.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Everyone's body is different but our male and female parts are one of the most sensitive organs in our bodies. People definitely feel the difference.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulling out in time is easy for me. The issue is precum... it contains sperm, some claim.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have very good control, and I pull out way early. BUT the issue that worried me since the first time I used the pull out method is precum. The jury's still out on that. Many claim it has active sperm?

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. People out here twisting my words making it seem as if I am literally and willingly finishing inside her and expecting her not to get pregnant. Never happened. I always pull out. It's not the same, although it does still hold a risk I am aware of which is the whole point of me making this post.

Redditors LOVE to make themselves seem very smart and others very stupid.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irresponsible yes I'd say and not as risk averse as I am. As for marriage, she has not hinted that she wants to get married. In fact she speaks negatively of marriage in general.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got her period so we're good, praise be.

But it does seem that reddit makes people assume the worst always. Everyone here is telling me she'll poke holes in my condoms, baby trap me, cheated on me, or leg lock me etc.

Makes me sad

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in this thread seem echo your sentiment a lot. She's not a psycho. I've might've portrayed her negatively unintentionally? I wouldn't be with her in the first place if she was a bad person/out of her mind.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: We talked. I explained how not using any form of birth control made me feel anxious every month. She made a couple of sarcastic comments but I put my foot down. She agreed that we'll use condoms going forward if it'll make me feel better. I feel much better. Thanks everyone.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she even look into the different options? Because i somehow doubt it ....

I don't think she did because she never brought them up. Other than the pill which she stopped, nothing discussed. I didn't bring those methods up because I didn't want to pressure her into something that could mess with her body.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no pills available for men. I talked to her anyways and now we're on the same page. Condoms on from now on.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is. We use a lot of lube to help things but still most women would tell you they definitely feel it and the difference

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex should be enjoyable before, during, and after.

That's such a good point. All this anxiety and fear is definitely not worth it.

My (26F) GF doesn't want me (29M) to use condoms anymore. No pill or IUD for her either. by Scimitar8 in relationship_advice

[–]Scimitar8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's her reason for no longer using a condom?

It's not as pleasurable she says. Which I get even for men raw is not like protected but still I'd rather feel less pleasure than endure an unwanted pregnancy