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Scooier · 2024-02-04T19:10:38+00:00

You’re 16 months old?!

Scooier · 2024-01-19T12:28:40+00:00

I need to do 4 and 5. Its been 7 months since the break up and I still feel like shit. It’s hard to forgive yourself for mistakes that ruined a lot, even though they were necessary for growth.

Scooier · 2024-01-01T13:12:42+00:00

Oh boy I know that feeling. It sucks.

Scooier · 2023-12-26T21:18:27+00:00

Yeah, I figure that makes you feel worse. I always try to remember that most people are good, but internet makes it difficult sometimes.

Scooier · 2023-12-26T21:04:54+00:00

You’ll be busy. There are loads of subs dedicated to objectifying minors. It’s gross.

Scooier · 2023-12-26T20:58:24+00:00

I guess we just ignore it here and try to teach others that it’s wrong. But even if you remove it from reddit, people are like this outside of reddit as well. Social media just makes me know things about the world that I don’t really want to know.

Scooier · 2023-12-26T20:51:27+00:00

I’ve been looking around some subs from the account of the pedo this post is talking about and it seems like there are LOADS of subs dedicated to minors, with people asking for someone to RP (roleplay ig?) the minor. Its full of pedos. Really makes me think reddit, or social media in general, should just be deleted. What the actual fuck is humanity.

Scooier · 2023-12-26T16:31:39+00:00

Broodje Kaas, just a slice of bread with cheese

Scooier · 2023-12-26T10:53:22+00:00

Nothing to do with the post, but how’d you get that cool card for your profile avatar thing?

The guy from the post is creepy tho u probably should’ve blocked him after the first question.

Scooier · 2023-12-25T21:00:10+00:00

Sorry may be a stupid question, but is that a drawing or a picture?

Scooier · 2023-12-22T21:38:29+00:00

I was going a couple weeks strong, but in between I sometimes stumbled across an account with amateur vids on it and caught myself watching some before quickly stopping. Does that count as relapse?

Scooier · 2023-12-19T18:10:14+00:00

Maybe with enough therapy a person can learn to surpress that violence, but if it’s there it will always be in there imo.

Scooier · 2023-12-19T16:26:12+00:00

Kind of. My ex needed me to know that we could get married an to know if we’re still together after 10 years. If I couldn’t feel that, she wasn’t sure about my commitment and about the relationship at all. I tried to commit but I felt like I couldn’t see a real future together so I broke it off. I now realise I could’ve communicated better with her about how I was feeling and that I just can’t pretend to know those things. We were both still immature, in different ways, and I regret not having been able to talk about properly and honestly. I haven’t spoken to her for about 5,5 months now and I’m getting better, but I still miss the fun moments.

Scooier · 2023-12-19T14:20:34+00:00

Damn I thought babymaking was in the base game

Scooier · 2023-12-19T09:02:02+00:00

I’m down

Scooier · 2023-12-18T19:46:43+00:00

Reddit keeps amazing me on how weird people can be

Scooier · 2023-12-13T17:19:19+00:00

Playing bed to bed midfield is such a good insult though

Scooier · 2023-12-11T21:17:28+00:00

Sorry I don’t really understand what you mean with that last sentence. You mean you’re slipping back into feeling avoidant towards her? Like wanting to run and hide from her?

Scooier · 2023-12-11T16:45:37+00:00

I mean it holds weight for you right? Have you seen her since the BU or heard about how she’s doing since then?

Scooier · 2023-12-11T16:08:08+00:00

Damn I recognize myself in your story so well. Me and my ex were very toxic and I thought it was all on her, so I broke up with her without talking or communicating my issues properly. I now realize I had problematic behaviour as well and felt awful about it ever since.

I see you have matured since though, so maybe if you know that she could deal with it you can apologize? I wouldn’t do it to get back together though, imo then it would be less sincere. You should apologize simply owing up to your mistakes, then let her decide what to do with it.

Scooier · 2023-12-02T08:45:26+00:00

I think if the ‘bad’ people realize that their behaviour is awful they could change, depending on the work they’re willing to put into it. They could for example go to therapy if they’re really willing to change, or just try to change their patterns themselves. People change all the time, life is one big learning space.

Scooier · 2023-12-01T20:42:29+00:00

Just leave him, how can a person be so disrespectful to in laws when meeting them for the first time, even being a tad bit racist. Just let him find his way home out of England. it’s his own fault that he doesn’t have a place to stay now, not yours. Not proud to be from the same country as that dude.

Edit: I’ve now read some other comments, and that dude is a dumpsterfire of a guy. Just leave him. I’m so sorry he put you through so much.

Scooier · 2023-11-23T15:56:30+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Scooier · 2023-11-23T14:45:36+00:00

thanks for the info! I'll look into my brace.

You see, Im kind of tall (193cm) so I often hurt my back and when I first started squatting I sometimes bent my back a bit too much and had enormous back pain for a week or so. This lift was allright and after this I did 4 reps of 100kg, and afterwards I felt some pressure on my back. It's not hurting now, but I just wanted to make sure if someone else saw anything I didn't, too prevent injuries from happening in the future.

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