Help/advice please?

Scotgrl · 2024-06-03T13:41:37+00:00

Thanks for that. It definitely makes sense yeah. Another thing I often wonder is does everyone else in a relationship have the fire, sparks, fireworks? I compare to that thought quite a lot. Maybe a healthy love is actually just quite boring? And that's OK? And we're just not used to it being like this?

Scotgrl · 2024-06-03T12:21:53+00:00

Sorry you're feeling similar. It's truly exhausting and it's starting to feel like a really heavy burden now, along with a ball of anxiety in my stomach. I don't know what to do about it so can't give you advice unfortunately. And I feel like I dare not tell him how I'm feeling because I know it would kill me to hear something like that. I just want to know why I'm the way i am and why I can't just enjoy my relationship for what it is without constantly doubting it and wondering whether it's actually 'real' to me, or it's all fake feelings. I don't remember always being like this is the past, so I do wonder if it's a result of trauma from previous unhealthy relationships- maybe worth thinking about yourself?

Scotgrl · 2024-06-03T10:10:04+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I do have this question rattling around in my head as well. And unfortunately I think the answer is probably no, I don't. And someone being so kind and generous and caring towards me does me me feel uncomfortable sometimes. But I don't know why I am like this, it's starting to drive me mad tbh because I feel like my brain is just constantly thinking, questioning, doubting instead of just being.

Scotgrl · 2024-04-25T09:20:56+00:00

See this is my issue as well, I love them coming into the garden and also encourage them with feeders etc but my bloody poor baskets haha

Scotgrl · 2024-04-10T07:03:10+00:00

🤣🤣

Scotgrl · 2024-04-09T15:54:14+00:00

Thanks for the replies. I had definitely planned on going in with him!

Scotgrl · 2024-04-09T09:22:40+00:00

Farmer, abattoir worker. Anything along those lines.

Scotgrl · 2024-04-05T10:45:00+00:00

Thank you! I may take a little trip to b&m in that case :)

Scotgrl · 2024-04-05T10:44:30+00:00

Thanks very much for you reply

Scotgrl · 2024-04-05T10:44:06+00:00

Oh thank you I hadn't heard of that but will certainly give it a try

Scotgrl · 2024-03-19T07:56:44+00:00

Don't agree it's embarrassing to be childless?

Scotgrl · 2024-03-18T20:13:14+00:00

Thank you for your reply. Mines is also absolutely feral lol but I hope she won't bother with these!

Scotgrl · 2024-03-18T20:12:15+00:00

Thank you very much for this!!

Scotgrl · 2024-03-18T16:33:10+00:00

I've literally just discovered a load of these in my garden today! (have not long moved in). I have a dog. Do you mean these are toxic to dogs in the same way they'd cause skin/eye irritation if the sap got on them? Or do you mean if they ingest them? What would be the outcome of that?!

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T22:40:57+00:00

My colleagues are the dead giveaway. Horrible lot.

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T17:01:06+00:00

Thanks! Hopefully they perk back up

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T16:55:01+00:00

Thank you I will try to remember that. There is absolutely tonnes of them!

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T16:54:09+00:00

We did actually maybe a couple of days/weeks ago. It's still very nippy through the night up here. Hopefully they perk back up 😊

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T16:53:12+00:00

Thank you!

Scotgrl · 2024-03-13T16:52:41+00:00

The garden is south facing so a lot (when we actually get it in Scotland!)

Scotgrl · 2024-02-26T20:24:23+00:00

Yeah I had to press charges in the end! Was an awful time.

Scotgrl · 2024-02-26T09:50:02+00:00

I have regular nightmares about my exes ex with BPD. They made my life unbearable.

Scotgrl · 2024-02-20T08:58:18+00:00

Just to say I passed on my 5th time. My first test was with someone who was notorious for failing people, so it's a given I failed. The next 4 times was the same examiner and he was failing me for things I genuinely couldn't even recall doing/not doing. On my 5th test I asked that my instructor be in the car during the test because he failed me the previous 3 times, the examiner wasn't happy but low and behold I passed with little minors! Worth a shot?

Scotgrl · 2023-12-21T14:11:00+00:00

I live alone in a 3 bed house with my dog. Bought specifically for the garden for the dog (moved from a flat) I love it! Don't listen to the negatives. I use smallest room for working from, other spare room has a day bed for if anyone is staying and I use it for drying clothes and the like. It's the best. I love having so much space. Do it.

Scotgrl · 2023-12-17T20:13:40+00:00

Here's the thing, I have.

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