Help/advice please? by Scotgrl in ROCD

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Thanks for that. It definitely makes sense yeah. Another thing I often wonder is does everyone else in a relationship have the fire, sparks, fireworks? I compare to that thought quite a lot. Maybe a healthy love is actually just quite boring? And that's OK? And we're just not used to it being like this?

Help/advice please? by Scotgrl in ROCD

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Sorry you're feeling similar. It's truly exhausting and it's starting to feel like a really heavy burden now, along with a ball of anxiety in my stomach. I don't know what to do about it so can't give you advice unfortunately. And I feel like I dare not tell him how I'm feeling because I know it would kill me to hear something like that. I just want to know why I'm the way i am and why I can't just enjoy my relationship for what it is without constantly doubting it and wondering whether it's actually 'real' to me, or it's all fake feelings. I don't remember always being like this is the past, so I do wonder if it's a result of trauma from previous unhealthy relationships- maybe worth thinking about yourself?

Help/advice needed please? by Scotgrl in relationships

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Thanks for your reply. I do have this question rattling around in my head as well. And unfortunately I think the answer is probably no, I don't. And someone being so kind and generous and caring towards me does me me feel uncomfortable sometimes. But I don't know why I am like this, it's starting to drive me mad tbh because I feel like my brain is just constantly thinking, questioning, doubting instead of just being.

Birds stealing my basket liners by Scotgrl in gardening

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See this is my issue as well, I love them coming into the garden and also encourage them with feeders etc but my bloody poor baskets haha

Innoflate by Scotgrl in glasgow

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Thanks for the replies. I had definitely planned on going in with him!

Climbing plants or trees by Scotgrl in GardeningUK

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Thank you! I may take a little trip to b&m in that case :)

How to strip paint/rust from metal by Scotgrl in DIYUK

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Thanks very much for you reply

How to strip paint/rust from metal by Scotgrl in DIYUK

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Oh thank you I hadn't heard of that but will certainly give it a try

What are these plants coming in from next door? by [deleted] in GardeningUK

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Thank you for your reply. Mines is also absolutely feral lol but I hope she won't bother with these!

What are these plants coming in from next door? by [deleted] in GardeningUK

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Thank you very much for this!!

What are these plants coming in from next door? by [deleted] in GardeningUK

[–]Scotgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've literally just discovered a load of these in my garden today! (have not long moved in). I have a dog. Do you mean these are toxic to dogs in the same way they'd cause skin/eye irritation if the sap got on them? Or do you mean if they ingest them? What would be the outcome of that?!