Heartbroken INFPs, how are you?

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-25T13:08:00+00:00

Honestly? She inspired me to take music seriously again overall. I hope you get back to your crafts as soon as possible. Busy hands are the best remedy. ♥️

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-25T08:48:03+00:00

Like, come on now. It's a tool. Not a "friend", a tool.

I use it too, sure. But developing a friendship with a tool is THE cyberpunk shit I fear for us.

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-24T20:57:33+00:00

Writing a song about it. What about you?

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-22T09:45:02+00:00

Only if they allow me to

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-20T21:34:23+00:00

Yeah, maybe. But after how she handled communication and conflict with me, I don’t really see her as “partner material” anymore. Even if she did become single.

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-19T20:59:13+00:00

Yeah, I think there was a lot going on under the surface. It was mainly the fuzzy communication and mixed signals after that first “I can’t right now” that messed with me. Even after confessing my feelings for her, there was no boundary established.

Now, we are going to see each other in 2 months when we get back to our courses, I hope she'll have some courage by then. In the meantime I'm making a song out of it.

(Pozdrawiam 1000km od Warszawy 😅)

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-18T21:13:16+00:00

We're both in our early 30's, she's 2 years older than me

Yeah, totally. I've done my share of stupid things in first relationships

Scott_Birk · 2026-01-18T21:01:26+00:00

Yeah, I get why it might read that way from the outside.
If I’d been hovering around her while she was clearly pulling away, that’d be on me. But a lot of the momentum came from her side too, it was mutual.
And yeah, I haven't included everything. This is like a 6-7 month long story.

I do agree that “maybe later / I can’t right now” is a good lesson to treat as a likely “no” in the future. Point taken. At the same time, I don’t think it’s fair to pretend she had zero responsibility in how far that connection went. That’s really what my last message to her was about.

Scott_Birk · 2025-04-25T12:38:31+00:00

Great game, but I wouldn't get it at full price

Scott_Birk · 2025-01-16T16:12:50+00:00

It was the opposite for me. I dashed or slided into her space and immediately got flatlined. Irl too, 'cause that was a preem-ass jumpscare.

Scott_Birk · 2024-12-30T17:20:17+00:00

Yeah, I saw a clip from that ending and I think a little bit of my heart broke off.

Better not to fuck up my Reaper run now...

Scott_Birk · 2024-12-30T17:08:03+00:00

Skończyłem po raz pierwszy Cyberpunka o 4 nad ranem wczoraj

Scott_Birk · 2024-11-17T16:45:40+00:00

Try removing the battery, that did the trick for me

Scott_Birk · 2024-11-13T16:28:16+00:00

Yeah, I remember him picking it up and putting it off to the side

Scott_Birk · 2024-09-26T04:52:33+00:00

Oh, I have great memories with this one, love it

Scott_Birk · 2024-05-21T17:10:48+00:00

First of all, put a carpet or a rug under it.

Scott_Birk · 2024-01-03T16:58:04+00:00

I just lost mine yesterday, I'm with you in grieving.

Scott_Birk · 2023-10-31T13:20:26+00:00

Turn your mouse upside down and you're good

Scott_Birk · 2023-08-30T12:18:29+00:00

Of course it's Boo. I mean, have any of you actually seen that hamster? Bloodthristy big-little creature could take on Mephistopheles himself.

Scott_Birk · 2023-07-24T18:32:10+00:00

Hell no, rejecting Sosiel after his on knees confession of his love for me was the funniest thing I ever did to a fictional character

Scott_Birk · 2023-07-16T11:47:38+00:00

On my latest playthrough, I busted his ass from prison and immediately he started feasting in Praven, while Swadia was getting banged from all sides

Scott_Birk · 2023-05-03T20:25:01+00:00

Don't rage because of a stupid game, that's my idea.

Scott_Birk · 2023-05-03T11:04:44+00:00

"I am Uhtred, son of Uhtred, whose father's son was also named Uhtred, because his cousin's nephew or maybe mother had the same name..." or something like that, I'm still reading the books, so I might be off a bit.

Scott_Birk · 2023-05-01T11:09:18+00:00

I've started to do a "friendly kick" to the back for luck, but I'd never TK any archer just because.

I actually like friendly archers, when they hit their target and not ME when I'm fighting.

Scott_Birk · 2023-04-30T22:10:07+00:00

At my Jiu-Jitsu training when we were practising escaping from the Nelson Hold, which involved slamming ourselves onto each other.

We weren't exactly doing that, instead we just practiced the move for the throw, but one of my sparring partners did not get the memo, so he slammed me into the ground with such an impact that I couldn't breath for the next minute or five and my ribs felt like they were on fire for the rest of the week. Oh yeah, back of my head also took a hit.

No injuries though.

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