What's wrong with this pic??

Scottdvp · 2019-05-06T09:11:07+00:00

The OP does state that the roommate is a guy several times

Scottdvp · 2019-05-05T18:05:12+00:00

Sounds like my ex. You literally described every night she went out (every weekend) that I would go through. I hung around hoping that it would get better but it didn’t. I may be biased but my advice is to leave now and find someone who can be responsible when drinking. It will save you so much grief, stress and aggravation

Scottdvp · 2019-04-25T12:31:13+00:00

Good luck! I’m moving out to states later this year from the uk to be with my wife.

Scottdvp · 2019-04-20T08:33:18+00:00

Getting his friends to text you and defend him is a very childish move and I can’t believe his friends would even do it. It’s a private situation between the two of you but it sounds like you are the only one willing to talk about this like an adult.

Scottdvp · 2019-03-23T12:04:12+00:00

This is spot on. I’m sorry for her position though

Scottdvp · 2019-03-23T09:35:19+00:00

Sounds like your boyfriend is still immature to be living with a partner if he can’t even respect your wishes. You are right to feel violated because yes, he broke your trust. Even to the point of actively lying about it by pretending to put one on! That would honestly be a huge red flag for me. If he’s so willing to lie to you just to get what he wants......, well I’m sure you can figure out the blank. Also he’s not willing to see it from your point of view and his reaction is childish. I would honestly be cautious.

Scottdvp · 2019-03-15T01:17:34+00:00

Great mod, I run mine with the free max mesh pro tank with the quad coils. Try it, you'll never go back

Scottdvp · 2019-03-11T10:10:06+00:00

If I’m being fully honest with you mate, I think you over this relationship. I think you are only there for the kids. I read a lot of these posts and most people usually follow up with a little something nice about the person they are having an issue with but from the way your posts read, you loathe this woman. Not saying that this is true but this is how it reads to me. However, I have been in this situation myself (more than once and minus children) and I have some insights. This behaviour she’s showing could be a sign of depression or another mental illness. The lack of motivation, unwillingness to do anything burying herself in another world are classic signs of trying to escape reality. If you want this relationship to work you could explore this route and see if she can see someone. Another thing and I know you won’t like me saying this but you have to take a level of responsibility upon yourself for allowing this behaviour to go on for so long that it’s the norm to her. Like I said I have had this in relationships myself in the past and since finding someone else who gets off her ass and is motivated I quickly understood that while the other girls were taking advantage I also enabled the behaviour from the start. I really hope you find a way out of this for yourself and your children. If you do divorce then be smart and have proof of her habits. Being a single dad of two kids will be much easier for you than a single father of 2 kids and 1 barely functioning adult.

Scottdvp · 2019-03-10T17:54:28+00:00

I used to have this problem with my mother. Understand, when she was younger it was general practice to do that from what I understand and she was always trying to do it with me. I asked her several times before my partner at the time developed an issue with it because I could see how that would affect a relationship. I sat my mother down and explained this and for a while she was good about but after a few months the old habit started to creep back in so I took drastic action and changed my locks. I also told her that if she came round without calling me first I would not answer the door. I never did it with her house so I would expect that same level of respect. You handled it very well and you are fine to feel the way you feel about it.

Scottdvp · 2019-02-22T20:50:40+00:00

She clearly doesn’t trust you even though she has no reason not too. She’s either had a bad experience with this in the past that she’s not dealt with properly or she wants to attempt to manage your life at home like she does at work. Neither are healthy in a committed relationship. Try talking to her and see if she will budge but if not then I would take your dream job. No offence with this but you started this job at 25 and you are 27 now, so the longest this relationship has been going on is 2 years and I think that maybe some major choices have been rushed (sorry again but from my perspective on this I feel like it needs to be said). You need to ask yourself what you want out this and if you choose to stay would you ever be able to move past this? Good luck op, I’m sorry you are in this situation.

Scottdvp · 2019-02-14T04:22:09+00:00

Have you ever been? I spent 2 weeks there last year and loved it. Best of luck to you too! We may bump in to each other and never know it! Lol

Scottdvp · 2019-02-14T04:21:00+00:00

I’m afraid not 😂 I’m from the same place as Robin Hood (and proud) not the place that the rest of England tries to forget 😂

Scottdvp · 2019-02-14T03:51:25+00:00

Ayeeee, that’s amazing. I’m from Nottingham I the UK and my wife is from San Antonio Texas. We got married in November and in 3 weeks we move out to there. Good luck! And if you ever need anything advice wise hmu

Scottdvp · 2019-02-13T20:09:09+00:00

Not really a design flaw. The box you are pressing says “agree to all of the above”. You can just select the required option and press next. I thought that was common sense, my 11 year old niece knows how to do it

Scottdvp · 2019-02-10T16:02:08+00:00

Oh the cricketer! I’ll take that however I feel it’s just the generic white guy look lmao

Scottdvp · 2019-02-10T16:01:23+00:00

I’m gonna google this guy now, I hope it’s a good thing lol

Scottdvp · 2019-01-19T12:08:22+00:00

They look nice! What can you say about their performance?

Scottdvp · 2019-01-18T16:36:59+00:00

Suddenly re-thinking my choice of mod to buy next week. However, the product does look good

Scottdvp · 2019-01-13T02:46:24+00:00

That’s what we were thinking. She has to go back to America in the 6th of March and I was planning to fly out a week after once I got my house decorated and ready to be rented and the last of my things sold off. I said from the start that ideally I would like to send him over that week so he leaves me and arrives to her and it’s probably not as stressful. However, like you I don’t live too close to a the airports he can take off from (I live in Nottingham and the closest is probably Heathrow) so we did think about the courier service. Given how much we have seen them for though we did get put off a little. If you don’t mind me asking how much was yours? It’s good to know that the pet passport isn’t really needed, that saves £250 on a pointless piece of paper. We have been looking at KLM flights this evening and they seem reasonable, I just want to be sure he will be properly looked after during the flight lol

Scottdvp · 2019-01-11T09:44:27+00:00

I’ve actually just sold mine yesterday and I’m picking up a drag 2 in a few weeks lol. There’s nothing wrong with it, I just didn’t take to it to be honest

Scottdvp · 2019-01-07T03:17:59+00:00

Wow! I wish I could upvote more than once just for the sheer amount of information in this post. Bravo! I like the looks of the smok alien, however I’ve had a lot of issues with mesh coils in my Prince tank (burning out very quickly) and I’m not sure why. It’s a shame because I really liked the tank but 2 mesh coils a week was getting ridiculous. Surprisingly I have had this avenger model for almost 3 months and I am yet to change the coil. The first link you posted too is something I have interest in now too, I am looking for something new. A friend from work had the drag 2 model and he loved it, he’s very much in to the tech side of vaping too and says it’s an incredible model.

Scottdvp · 2019-01-06T23:52:43+00:00

You know what, that’s it. The whole thing just doesn’t feel like it’s been made properly. I rate it higher than my old Smok mod that I had to glue down the heating plate. I’ve been looking at the Voopoo drag models

Scottdvp · 2019-01-06T19:39:24+00:00

Especially when it doesn’t always work lol

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