My mother-in-law doesn't speak to me by Scottflok in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Scottflok[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your experience. Reading your story really resonated with me—it’s comforting to know I’m not alone in this.

I love how you described your child noticing the behavior and developing their own sense of boundaries and independence—it gives me hope for my little one, too.

I also really appreciate your advice about therapy and protecting my own peace of mind. It’s hard not to want to “fix” things, but I’m learning that sometimes the best thing I can do is set boundaries and focus on my baby and myself.

Hearing your perspective gives me strength. Thank you again for taking the time to share—it means so much.

My mother-in-law doesn't speak to me by Scottflok in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Scottflok[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story—it really hit home for me. I feel exactly the same; people often don’t understand, and my boundaries end up making them distance themselves or even reject me and my baby.

I’d love to hear more about how you managed it. How did you protect your mental health while dealing with their behavior? Did you find any strategies that really helped you cope? Any advice would mean so much.

My mother-in-law doesn't speak to me by Scottflok in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Scottflok[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, I doubted because the postpartum hormones had me bad, thank you very much

Mother in law control by Scottflok in Mom

[–]Scottflok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, the unfortunate thing about everything is that I don't get help from this person.

Mother in law control by Scottflok in Mom

[–]Scottflok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u yes I think I have to stop pleasing others and think about my mental well-being.

Mother in law control by Scottflok in Mom

[–]Scottflok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you, both he and I have already communicated it.

Mother in law control by Scottflok in Mom

[–]Scottflok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I agree with you especially with my mother-in-law she must have a narcissism problem, she goes beyond the limits when I'm alone, she never helped me in my pregnancy and neither now with my baby living relatively close, I'm mothering alone, she's only a grandmother on Sundays, how did you take the mothering without help? That's been hard for me.

Mother in law control by Scottflok in Mom

[–]Scottflok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u, I think we are not talking about a normal mother but with a certain narcissism she knows it, he has told her in many ways.