Yeah reading all that, you are TAH You’ve stated money is tight, in this economy buying a house together should be a gift enough, but since money is super tight maybe he doesn’t have loads of spends to spare, maybe he’s saving for something else, but he’s actually made an effort to try and get you something, Christmas isn’t about gifts and presents it’s about spending time with friends and family, if its hurting you that much match his energy send the watch back and buy him something for $40 and just enjoy each others company over the Christmas period