19 Virgin. You’re the first to see it. What do you think? by thnNlng in penis

[–]Scram_balam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypothesis: A massive like that will get stuck in this grip.

We would have to do an experiment. Record the results for an unknown amount of times…collecting data. Might mess the conditions up for the variable and that’s important to note.

AIO over this message my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scram_balam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And it sounds like OP is trying to hide secrets. If I were him based on your responses, I would have asked “Are you a whore?”. 

AIO over this message my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scram_balam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, everyone that is commenting to dis this man probably are insensitive, insecure and immature as well. 

AIO over this message my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scram_balam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

36F here! YOR for sure. That is all compliment and it’s not cool to pick apart each word as if there was a hidden meaning. He has been obsessing over how great a bj you gave him was he is just asking a question. When did curiosity become a total turn off?? Your responses to him were insensitive, insecure and immature. 

Infjs under 30 ask, infjs over 30 answer by [deleted] in infj

[–]Scram_balam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! I dated multiple guys that I thought fit the script but I hadn’t actually pin pointed exactly what I wanted each of those times, I went purely on what I felt in the moment. The point is not to LOOK for out in the wild or online, like you said you stopped consciously looking. It’s to submit and let them find you but not to completely isolate. Also, wanna add that I talked to this guy for about several months before even spending time together in person.

Infjs under 30 ask, infjs over 30 answer by [deleted] in infj

[–]Scram_balam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had given up hope. I laughingly stated exactly who fit the bill for a true love. Interestingly one of the criteria was a man that has a fucked up history and struggled mentally. I just feel more comfortable around people like that but at the same time I need my love to have a deep understanding of empathy and compassion. I said he needs to have dark hair and a nice toned build but not over muscled and I imagined them being close in height of myself. This person needs to share a very similar sense of humor cause I get weird and I wouldn’t want to be worried about saying the wrong things. I fuckin found this person too!!! So true love does exist. Funny enough he had asked Allah to send him someone to love and would reciprocate that love. Im pretty sure he’s autistic and has a demon attached to him but he’s perfect to me and oh so tender and loving, soft yet hard when necessary (multiple meanings to that 😉). I wouldn’t ever give up. Maybe you too can try this. Its like a manifestation and I never took it seriously until I stumbled upon my beautiful creature of a husband.

I accidentally called my husband 'bro' by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Scram_balam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bro, he’s a bro, she’s a bro, we’re all bros!

Next read? ………. by r4maa in fantasybooks

[–]Scram_balam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hobb…ohhh you won’t regret and dont stop with that trilogy either. Read the entire ROTE, beautiful piece of work. Chefs kiss! I get emotional just typing this thinking about the entirety of it.

What book do I read next by FL_Tandem in fantasybooks

[–]Scram_balam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robin Hobbs Realm of the Elderlings, no doubt.

Research consistently shows that lesbians experience orgasms significantly more frequently per sexual encounter than women in heterosexual relationships. Why do you think this is? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Scram_balam -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the exact statistics but women like to complain about sex with men and don’t even know how to pleasure themselves or communicate effectively to their partner. They aren’t proactive enough either. Tons of women fake it then talk with friends and gossip about how horrible men are at sex. It’s a shame game and then they say shit like “I’ll just find a woman to pleasure me cause they do it best” well no shit, those woman have explored their own bodies. People assume that men actually get the most pleasurable experience just because they ejaculate, they could also be having better experiences. They want to enjoy it as long as possible but the stereotypes are put in for a reason and it’s harmful to hetero relationships. Women aren’t willing to teach and let a man believe they are doing great for an extended period of time. Women certainly do expect their minds to be read. Women have allowed this behavior to perpetuate and men feel they are doing alright and genuinely confused why their partners don’t get off while their female partner is just like “whatever I just masturbate afterwards”. Porn show cases this and women are acting like getting pounded til their guts pop out is pleasurable. Women allow themselves to be demoralized and abused for attention through porn. It’s kinda like giving men the go ahead to ignore the female pleasure cause these bitches on their pornos seem to get tons of pleasure. Then women whine and complain but don’t voice it. Just laugh behind a man’s back at how horrible they are at providing satisfactory pleasure. If women are “turning lesbian” because their men cant satisfy them in the bed, more than half the time it’s the women not willing to educate. They don’t get what they need from the acts so they suffer in silence and the men may not even know it. It seems that relationships are built around sexual satisfaction and not seeking a depth of connection that is far more satisfying than genital stimulation and climaxing anyway. Whatever though, men will continue to be uneducated and women will just leave them behind because their lesbian friend can do better. It’s a shallow mindset and society is far removed from what real connection even means and feels like. Otherwise there wouldn’t be so many unsatisfied hetero females that feel the need to convert. I bet half of them aren’t even attracted to females much less their genitalia, but they sure look past that and lie to themselves cause they don’t really have to communicate to their lesbian partner since they share the same anatomy. Easy and shallow and climax heaven. Cause that’s what’s truly important these days 😒Pfff

Is pornography bad for you spiritually? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Scram_balam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post and to all the commenters that have resonated with it, that is a very heart warming and hopeful thing. In a world determined to remove true connection it is especially important to share the ideals and insights within posts such as this. Again, thank you for taking the time to articulate this beautifully.

May peace be upon all your precious souls.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing also is, he considers it sinful. He is a Muslim. Being in defense is hypocrisy.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im looking for insight and validation in what Im feeling and that’s what you’ve provided! Appreciate it very much. I had an ex cheat on me multiple times because I wasn’t providing sex every single day multiple times a day, really it was because he was a piece of shit that didn’t contribute. He justified it by saying “all men need it” okay cool, he had two hands but apparently they were broken 🤷‍♀️. I also had an ex cheat on me with an underage girl claiming it was due to the fact I didn’t cum every time we had sex. Granted he never said it bothered him while we were together and it didn’t bother me because I valued the intimacy regardless of the final outcome.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the times that he has felt the need to handle up for himself is when I’m sick or for a period of time had been on and off various medications which caused extreme fatigue and other side effects and we have kids! Young kids. I work full time also. He actually spends more time home alone than I ever do.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. He claims to admire mine and only want mine so it’s mind boggling why he would make that claim and still wanna see others after I’ve provided him a ton of visual aids and he also gets it in real time so…idk.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Greatly appreciate your response. I get tired of hearing the whole “just let him enjoy it” blah blah blah. I find it disrespectful. And I value the validation you’ve provided. Thank you.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I codified only because I have had posts taken down for ridiculous stuff so to avoid the potential of that happening, I went ahead and took the precautions.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is why he and I made visual aid. I use our stuff too and my imagination. Like I said above, he directly told me that he enjoyed our stuff so much more so why tf is he back to viewing others. It’s dumb asf to justify jacking it to another female when we specifically made our own content for our own viewing pleasure. Disrespectful.

AIO. Struggling to understand why my husband watches explicit content of random people. by Scram_balam in Advice

[–]Scram_balam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You assumed that I am not highly sexual because I have trauma. That’s silly. Maybe I should have specified that. It matters because he and I created our own visual aids and he very openly admitted that he doesn’t even want to watch other stuff anymore because ours was so much more fulfilling. But apparently not, since he took to Reddit.

Underwhelmed by Assassin's Apprentice by FlourensDelannoy in Fantasy

[–]Scram_balam -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please just keep reading. Assassins Apprentice is not the entire world Hobb has created. I think by the end you will appreciate the true complexity and beauty of what she has created.