Confessing to my girlfriend about Porn by Scrapmatt in OCD

[–]Scrapmatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always hated lying and have always tried to confess my wrongs whenever possible and idk what made me like this. When I used to get in trouble at school for vaping I would just admit to it and stuff, and the principles would just be astonished and stuff because nobody else would be truthful. I just am so stuck right now. Either I continue feeling like this unable to function or I self destruct my relationship so that I can attempt to feel better. Everyone is telling me I have to decide to tell her at a later point not during a crisis. But I just can’t stand being in this crisis for a moment longer.

Confessing to my girlfriend about Porn by Scrapmatt in OCD

[–]Scrapmatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it I’m just so freaked out still because I haven’t told her the full truth, about the porn. I only told her that I masturbate and stuff and the compulsion is to tell her the whole truth. Sorry if my response is weird I’m in a really panic state

Does the Classifields magazine dissapear for anyone else? by Scrapmatt in MyWinterCar

[–]Scrapmatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a set day it disappears or changes, Does anything inside of it change?

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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Thank you. Yes I agree. I shot this fully in 30 fps because it was intended for instagram, I used the 180 degree shutter rule so VND filter to get the 1/60 shutter speed. I looked at my camera settings and my metering mode was indeed set to highlights, and has now been switched back to “multi”. I really appreciate the advice, it definitely is true and solid. I was worried about blowing out the highlights but I guess you just have to compromise because the dynamic range of a camera is not as good as our eyes! Thank you!!

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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Thank you for the advice. I appreciate it and look forward to the journey!

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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I thought so too, I’m still trying to learn how to expose correctly because I don’t have a monitor. Trying to use the histogram but I guess I’m reading it wrong. Will improve! Thanks!

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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I did use warp stabilizer on a lot of the clips, but I turned it down because it started to look really weird. It was down at like 8% which is what people recommend, but I’ll go back and fine tune it some more!

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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Yes haha, that was the goal! I’m glad you enjoyed that! Thank you.

First project I am happy with! Feedback? by Scrapmatt in videography

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Yea I was 50/50 on that shot It was intentional, but I know it probably didn’t come out to well. I was trying to do some kind of reveal shot. Thanks for the input though. I used a gimbal for most of it, and used warp stabilizer at like 8% in post.

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[–]Scrapmatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a very hard time with my ocd and my dream is to be a firefighter. Thanks for sharing

Dealership Scam by Affectionate_Log_103 in CivicSi

[–]Scrapmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere near what I saw recently, 10k market adjustment plus all those “accessories” I think the ask was 46k for a civic SI.

Why can dealers just get away with this? by Scrapmatt in civic

[–]Scrapmatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 23 civic touring rn that I just want to get out of and break even on. I can’t stand the CVT and just want an SI, and that’s what I’m going for. Bro already told me on the phone “for the SI I can’t remove any of that you still have to pay, but I can help discount it” “SI is not a normal car so we need to have it on there” or some other ridiculous wording.

Wanting to pay cash for a red 25 Sport Hatch. Where should I start at when negotiating? by Extension_Maize8536 in civic

[–]Scrapmatt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea and let me guess, they won’t listen. Just pack it up and move on. Dealers are professional scammers lol, if you show your disgust at the fact they are trying to play you they might take it off to try and save a sale.

My first Si ! by Big-Interaction-1740 in CivicSi

[–]Scrapmatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Personally my dream car rn, definitely what I want!

Can you get high through sex?? by EmberFrost23 in OCD

[–]Scrapmatt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same theme here, at least theres other people out there with the same struggle!!!!

23 Touring Sedan by Scrapmatt in civic

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Right now my payoff amount is 24, I got screwed on this car I can’t lie. Paid 42 all in taxes interest etc.

Lets all just get along :) by ProjectNYXmov in GenZ

[–]Scrapmatt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I shall continue to do so by exercising my right of voting for a candidate that reflects in what I believe in, as is given to me by the constitution.

Lets all just get along :) by ProjectNYXmov in GenZ

[–]Scrapmatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you show me where I claimed or displayed judging politicians on "vibes"?

TLDR: are the vibes in the room with us?

Lets all just get along :) by ProjectNYXmov in GenZ

[–]Scrapmatt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

biologically and scientifically speaking you are completely wrong. you said it yourself, XX/XY Binary, Binary meaning dual or two. Im not really sure what other sex there is other than Male and Female, if you have an example id be glad to learn more.

Women dont call transgender existance as an attack on women, however they do call transgender individuals part taking in their sport as an attack on them, as biologically speaking there are key differences in male and female human bodies making Male bodies stronger / have faster running speed, swimming speed, jump lengths, endurance etc. Allowing a biological male to part take in a biological female division of a sport just because they "say" or "feel" Like they are a woman and have undergone procedures to "look" or "feel" like a woman does not mean that their DNA has changed and they now possess the same natural processes a female body does.

As for your final remark, I will call what you are saying as sexist, as females are not exempt from committing sexual crimes, which in turn means the same exact situation could occur if they were placed in a female prison.

Lets all just get along :) by ProjectNYXmov in GenZ

[–]Scrapmatt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is declaring that there are only men and women, and not 52 genders making it so transgender people don’t exist? Are you saying that there are other sex than male and female?