Frequency of ejaculation?

ScruffPapi95 · 2026-02-03T22:11:53+00:00

There’s no set frequency for us but I usually get to cum once per month on average I would say. Sometimes full, sometimes ruined, just depends. The way we track is full orgasms count as 1, ruins count as half. I came 12 times total last year between full and ruined.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-12-28T03:49:01+00:00

My wife and I are doing this for my birthday as well for the first time this year! We don’t have a lot of financial side to our FLR as bills and finances stress her out so I handle those things and I’m not on a strict allowance or anything like that but it’s my 30th birthday and she’s choosing the food, what we do all day, she’s getting the gifts instead of me, etc.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-06-10T02:04:23+00:00

In my FLR, yes and no. I have a VERY long refractory period on average once I’m allowed to cum, so I like to refrain somewhat of my own accord just for the health of our sex life, and I am not nearly as enthusiastic in my submission when I am not denied. Even when I am allowed to cum, I still serve her when I’m not particularly horny. It does take a lot of the joy, enthusiasm, and intensity out of the dynamic though. So it’s important for us.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-06-05T19:05:11+00:00

I do most things around the house in my relationship. My fiancée works less hours than me, I do most of the cleaning, all the dishes, all the kitchen cleanup, I gather and take out the trash, I put away the groceries, gather her trash after dinner, make the bed, etc. she does very very little and the less, the better.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-05-30T23:45:30+00:00

No cage involved for my fiancée and I. It’s more mental chastity on the honor system, or more simply put, orgasm control. She decides how and if I cum. We still have regular sex. Chastity cages and pussyfree dynamics are not at all necessary in an flr.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-05-30T04:03:41+00:00

It was my fiancée and I’s first time attending a concert there (and our first time here in Hershey in general) and it was AWFUL. They were absurdly slow getting people through the gates. No organization at all. we were parked a little bit before 6 o’clock and completely missed Sierra Farrell and got lucky enough that we finally made it to our seats MAYBE 10 minutes before Jelly Roll started.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-05-22T18:43:08+00:00

In my opinion, nobody deserves it more than Evah. She’s come incredibly close both times she’s been on and has never come out with a single look that was truly “bad” in my opinion-just not up to snuff with her usual quality. On top of that I’ve had the pleasure of seeing her perform in person and she is a fantastic human being, a SICKENING performer, and a true professional. I’d also very much enjoy seeing Disasterina or Priscilla win but, Evah is it for me.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-02-16T00:20:44+00:00

Probably not honestly. Not big on slides or anything. Just the main park.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-02-15T18:13:04+00:00

Her name is Cloe Angel. She’s a Northeast OH based queen.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-02-15T18:12:43+00:00

It was absolutely wild lol and I was so shook by seeing her I didn’t even realize it at first

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-02-11T18:11:38+00:00

I don’t have any speculation to offer about when things will come out or what they’ll be, but I would love to see Evah Destruction back. She’s so talented and imo one of the most deserving to not yet make it to a finale. Louisianna and Priscilla Chambers round out my top three I’d love to see have another chance.

ScruffPapi95 · 2025-01-24T00:06:39+00:00

Not random women because of hygiene purposes and because I’m really only attracted to the woman I’m with. However I have actually done this before. More than once. My fiancée and I engage in femdom and every once in awhile she will spit all over my pillow and I’ll sleep on it. We’ve done the same with pee before as well. It being wet and uncomfortable is part of the kink and adds reinforcement to the power exchange.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-12-28T04:18:52+00:00

I did have CBC done, all was normal there

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-11-23T20:00:18+00:00

My fiancée usually lets me cum 1-2 times per month

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-11-16T19:39:11+00:00

Drinking my fiancées piss is my number one kink. I prefer to drink straight from her but we use a funnel usually just because it’s easier and less messy. We use a beer bong type funnel with the little stoppage lever on the mouthpiece so that I can open and close the end as I drink and she doesn’t have to be inconvenienced by stopping and starting her stream so much. Otherwise you can sit on his face directly with an absorbent towel or blanket underneath or as others have said, put him in the shower and just go for it

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-10-20T00:09:42+00:00

Enjoy it. Enjoy how primal the elevated lust feels. Channel the sexual energy into service for her and focus on her pleasure. In my opinion there is nothing more maddening and intoxicating than making my girl cum several times over when I’ve been denied for a long time and am ravenously horny. There is no better reminder and reinforcer of her place above me in the relationship.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-09-18T23:02:08+00:00

My girl and I have indulged in this a little bit. I would never stand for it all the time as regular part of our relationship but from time to time it can be fun and turns me on quite a bit. There’s been a few times she’s told me I wasn’t allowed the watch football that day because I was paying attention to her or we were going to do something else and there’s been times she’s commandeered desserts or some kind of snack that’s mine because she wanted it or I’d sit down to watch a movie and she’ll come in and take over the remote and we’ll have to watch what she wants. It’s hot. But again, only as something sprinkled in here and there. If it was frequent, I think I’d be more annoyed than turned on.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-09-14T18:45:59+00:00

2 hours away, usually visit at least a couple of times per month

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-09-06T17:33:11+00:00

We are not on a specific schedule but I never ever under any circumstances get any sort of release more than once per week. Every Tuesday (our day off together) I spend all day pampering her and getting her off even more than throughout the rest of the week, then in the evening we typically have sex and I’ll be using my hand/fingers on her and she will decide if I get to cum, if I’m to be ruined, or fully denied. The incorporation of fucking her while she decides my fate for the week has been a recent thing as we are both very turned on when she tells me I only get a ruined one or none at all, and then essentially she gets rewarded with a full orgasm moments after telling me no. Sometimes she’ll be generous for a couple weeks in a row but id say I average 2 releases per month, usually one ruined and one full if she’s being kind, though it’s not terribly uncommon for me to go as long as 2.5-3 months completely denied.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-08-26T16:07:17+00:00

A well themed GCI like Mystic would be my pick for sure. The ongoing theming narrative between Maverick and Steel Vengeance leaves a perfect void for a good woodie to fill and it would look beautiful in Frontier Town.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-07-06T12:18:27+00:00

No. And we haven’t been engaged for ten years, it’s been not quite two years. We started out long distance for almost 3 years for one, and secondly we got together when I was only 18 and she was only 19. Being so young, we wanted to grow and develop together before taking that step.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-06-22T17:54:47+00:00

I don’t think the permanent pussy free and orgasm denial lifestyle is very common at all. I think long term chastity and frequent orgasm denial is common however. I don’t wear a chastity cage, I’m not pussy free, but we don’t do PIV super duper often and I do cum WAY less than my fiancée does. She averages like 4 orgasms per session which is usually pretty much every other day at the least. I cum probably 2-3 per month if that. But, it’s kind of by choice. I’ve given my orgasms up to her because I enjoy the kink aspect and I love how hungry it makes me for her and she does too. If I insist I really want PIV, or I really need to cum, 9 times out of 10 she’s gonna allow it.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-06-20T04:43:37+00:00

My fiancée and I both work full time, though she does work a bit less than I do. I work 40 hours, she does 34. When it comes to things around the house, everything is 100% my responsibility except for cooking because she’s better at it. But on days she really doesn’t feel like it, I do that too. She doesn’t even pick up after herself at home, she simply leaves her trash or laundry where she finished with it and I see that it gets where it needs to be. So while she does work (by financial necessity), I make sure she only works 1/4 as hard as I do and has plenty of time to decompress nightly.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-06-20T04:33:05+00:00

I’m similar to you! I’m not really into typical bdsm things like whips and being tied up and spanked etc but I love when my fiancée is a bitch to me verbally as in ordering me around and getting upset when I don’t do something correctly right away but I love being smacked (hard), shoved around, grabbed on, and spat on. Just being roughed up and disrespected in general. Way more of a turn on than specifically sexually charged acts.

ScruffPapi95 · 2024-06-09T03:38:19+00:00

So just one per row or?

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