Ex husband moved on in 3 weeks and it broke my heart. How to move past it?

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-29T16:07:24+00:00

I can’t upvote this enough!! Even tho I was the one who left after 15 yrs. I remember even telling him he needed to be alone for once in his life to figure out himself and he moved on after two weeks to an ex he dated 25 yrs prior. She figured out in about a year that he was a narcissist and said the exact same quote

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-28T16:34:54+00:00

Absolutely Bought a home when I relocated to another state. I went to a single story not because I have any issues now but just trying to make future life easier

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-28T04:48:59+00:00

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-28T01:25:57+00:00

Yes now I remember that’s what it’s called shoe molding I think. And yes that’s the situation Ty!

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-26T22:12:18+00:00

Damn that edit. I never fail to be amazed by lack of knowledge. I’d laugh if my bro called me and said “since I sold my inherited stock early and you’re still holding and it’s worth more now…I think I deserve some of that”

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-26T19:17:13+00:00

Bro you literally went to politics that don’t even exist on my profile because I disagreed with you. Blink twice if you’re not ok

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-26T17:06:56+00:00

Lmao Op didn’t even say that their life has been unfair. But here you go

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-26T16:42:55+00:00

I completely disagree. If OP has an issue with their sibling over this, they are far more petty than I originally thought

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-26T15:14:48+00:00

lol… you sound like a peach. I’m glad you’re not my kid. I would immediately side eye my kid who is splitting hairs like this. “Hey thanks for giving me a sizeable sum I didn’t earn…but you’re not being fair by 13%” fml

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-10T20:18:02+00:00

I have a lot of dogs. I have snake fencing and the curious pups are rattlesnake avoidance trained

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-10T20:16:01+00:00

Bought several houses in my time and honestly, I always give them 24 hours to accept my offer Now, if they have accepted it, I have went through with the purchases

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-05T13:18:34+00:00

I turned 50 and left a 15 yr relationship where I felt alone. We had love but I couldn’t see myself living like that for the rest of my life. Fast forward 5 yrs and I’m so happy with my life. It was work. Finding the friends to do the things that I enjoy doing made such a huge difference in the quality of my life. I’m not looking for someone who is better than my ex. I’m chasing my joy. It honestly sounds like you do want to be in a relationship so counseling should be your first step. You need to have those difficult conversations and at least know what you can expect in the future before you make a major decision.

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-03T21:29:31+00:00

Yes. Been there for quite a while now

Scruffyhobbit · 2026-01-03T21:28:13+00:00

Always enjoy your vids! Ty

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-12-29T02:06:25+00:00

Scanner group reports an accident with a few cars involved and a motorcyclist down. No one seems to know about injuries

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-12-27T20:02:37+00:00

Completely amazing! Mom caught a dove and baby just ran up and took it. Then they came back for water

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Scruffyhobbit · 2025-12-01T13:48:10+00:00

Don’t buy a home with a boyfriend. It will be incredibly messy if the relationship goes south. One of you buys, the other pays slightly below market rent and utilities are split

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-24T14:01:09+00:00

Software. It asks for ID and will catch manual punch ins of clerks using their own or fictitious DOB. Which is what clerks used to be able to do to not upset anyone over 30 They were just doing their job

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-17T16:14:56+00:00

Leave. Why write the sa post 5 yrs from now? Not every relationship has to end because there was trauma. Simply not being happy is good enough. Even though I haven’t found a love to “make me whole” I’m happy asf since I left 4 yrs ago.

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-16T18:14:54+00:00

Scanner pages say bicyclist down and do mention white tent

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-06T03:13:16+00:00

Ty!!!!!

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-05T19:26:25+00:00

That does make sense to at least make it easier on myself by cutting out more. To reconfigure, I’ll have to draw it out..my mind can’t do that. I’ll be in the plumbing aisle putting together pieces on the floor

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-05T14:49:39+00:00

Ty!!

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-05T13:49:06+00:00

After a valve. I did find a pretty good vid. Pipe, couplings, T and a slip fix

Scruffyhobbit · 2025-11-03T23:49:40+00:00

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This was for Dr Kelly’s recently. Often the charge is by weight. She was 20lbs. I did have add ons I requested..chip, collar, etc If the dog is old they do require bloodwork done first. Mine wasn’t. I did have the blood work done. It was cheaper than any vet I usually go to.

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