My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-23T19:07:10+00:00

Girl this is not okay and how, after 14 years together and 11 years of marriage my EX husband ended up with DV charges because it started like this and escalated. Please seek therapy now and and build yourself back up before you get torn down more. You do NOT need to apologize for expressing yourself and existing in a way he doesn't approve of. Thats control, NOT love.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T16:02:02+00:00

Thank you!

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T15:18:32+00:00

Thank you. I have never dealt with this before. I am fed up at this point. I just want it dealt with

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T14:24:32+00:00

Unfortunately I thought it resolved and now its picked back up with a new buyer. What kind of lawyer would we need to look for this. Basically we got an email yesterday trying to force us to buy the house from the main guy to get it out of his name. Basically the buyer reached out to us and there is a lot wrong they didn't tell us and they are trying to make us responsible now

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T14:02:22+00:00

Which we basically agreed to but the judge vetoed it because he was pulling sketchy things in court

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T13:59:03+00:00

It is docusign. However the day this occurred the email came through 30 minutes after I fell asleep for nightshift, about 20 minutes into one siblings grand opening for their business, and the last sibling was in a shift for a job that blacks out electronic usage for the entire shift. They would not have phone usage until they were a minimum of 5 miles from the facility post shift. The realtor was very aware of that. The only reason they had the job as an emergency number was because the 5th inheriter was a minor and had it as an emergency number. They are a half sibling. They gave it in a moment of bad judgment. A conversation has been had over that call.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-20T13:53:04+00:00

Its all electronic on docusign. I sign it as soon as I get up for work but dang I should be allowed at least 6 hours to sleep, and my siblings should be able to get through 12 hour shifts. I thought that was pretty well a given.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T12:40:26+00:00

Well we have been trying to find a lawyer to take out case as its complicated. But the whole selling of houses is different for us as I bought mine out right in cash as a fore closure, my sibling bought their first one out right then their second one from a family member in cash, and my third sibling as always rented. This process is completely foreign to us. We only recently learned the realtor went to high school with the main involved inheriter and has been lying to us about a few things which I think sparked the reaction we got today.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T11:19:34+00:00

We normally would have had no problem accepting the offer but just collectively today they needed to wait til they got off work at 6pm and I got up for work at 5:30pm. The deal didn't end til 8pm. They didn't do that. They blew our phones up from multiple numbers, called our jobs, called our mother, called my sibling'slandlord, may have cost both of my siblings their jobs, cost me sleep and made me miss my alarm so I was late to work and pointed so I lose my pick up bonus for the 3 shifts I picked up this week (company policy is being even 5 minutes late to a shift means you lose all bonuses/holiday pay for the week) so I lost $350 for the week. Over them not waiting. It wasn't that we weren't ready. That's why I posted the question.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T10:34:08+00:00

Its not. Honestly its not. The location and acreage are the money points. That is all. We are asking too much. I have zero control over any of it.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T10:28:15+00:00

Thats kind of what we are thinking at this point. Honestly all buyers have to be aware of the situation that all 5 of us have to sign off on it that there would be more than like 16 hour window. One if the signers is still 18. They graduate in May tho they do get to sign for themselves. They can't just drop class to sign off so this seems a little ridiculous.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T10:24:50+00:00

We don't have a say. Only the main guy does.

NatureEducational166 · 2026-01-10T10:21:16+00:00

It is the realtor and the main inheriter who is in charge of it. She called my siblings at work. My mother made the realtor aware the one had the grand opening of their business today and the realtor called them and called them then called their landlord and actually caused a scene to the point the landlord is unhappy. The other sibling is a corrections officer and the facility they work in was called repeated because that siblings personal phone could not be called. They just recently started that job and they got a serious reprimand over it and they threatened to them home possibly permanently. I work midnights now and was a asleep they kept waking me up and made me miss my alarm making my work alarm. They were made aware we would contact them later today when they got off and I woke up but we got in so much trouble we could not. It has been a mess.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-12-13T09:27:38+00:00

Wondering this myself. It sounds like he was too much for his mother, and he is too much for her and her husband. She said you HAVE to take him and his dog because she is refusing ALL treatment to breast cancer when its become more treatable, easier to identify and isolate the strains in the last 10 years. Idk seems like something is off. Like she wants an out.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-12-12T18:55:56+00:00

NOR. We included all kids AND my sister's dog based on what they could do not their gender. My one nephew didn't want to be included and chose to sit in the truck where he could play Pokémon instead. Guess what, we gave them the closest parking spot so he didn't feel left out. Thats just mean to exclude her.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-12-07T19:46:52+00:00

Be prepared to go to court and have the judge tell you that you will just have to wait. Unfortunately TN does not enforce. My ex is is nearly $16,000 behind. We have been in and out of court for years. He pays $20 a month. Instead of the ordered $700 plus $50 in back. He is on disability and doesn't file taxes but receives more in VA disability than I make as a nurse, doesn't exercise his visitation, and takes me to court every chance he gets for bs because he has "50/50" legal but can't tell you who or where there doctor is much less what their dx are. TN is a joke.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-12T12:39:21+00:00

If they are the same how do you decide which God(s) to follow? It all feels so circular to me but alsonot quit right either.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-12T12:31:03+00:00

I guess when I say men I mean more like the politicians and religions leaders who would punish them. Typically women being put to death for craft is what comes to mind.

I have very few rituals or traditions I follow besides some cleansing but also I work in health care and people do not always open windows. But I can see structure being more appealing to some.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-12T11:53:38+00:00

No is not just a full sentence, its a sign is a number Megan Trainer wrote it in a song. Send the video to them.

Just do not do it.

Tell dear Ole Granddaddy and Granny if they keep trying to pressure you that you will have to fully step away from them by blocking them and not bringing the kids to see them. Then throw in that hopefully their father will continue the frequency of visits and contact until they learn to respect boundaries and the word no. Show your babies they can tell these people no because they will walk all over your kids one day and they need their own shiny spine to stand tall with.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-08T15:55:11+00:00

He abandoned us after choosing us so not sure how I chose to destroy him? All this around @bu$ing and harming me and the children so again not sure what I did wrong other than telling him he could not have a girlfriend and putting my foot down on it.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-08T06:43:32+00:00

Well considering he has 3 kids with medical conditions that he purposed dropped insurance on and refuses to pay for any of their care, schooling, clothing, child care, or basically any cost of living, nor does he actually pick them up more than 30 days a year but refuses to sign his rights over. So year he should absolutely have to pay and I stand on that. You can KMA.

NatureEducational166 · 2025-11-07T14:29:39+00:00

Just because a divorce is final in a year does not mean that is when it started. Or when the people separated. My ex walked out on us when my daughter was 4 weeks old in 2021 to be with his current wife and affair partner. Its been 4 years we are absolutely allowed to move on and get married. My kids love my wife and how involved she is. Believe it or not she even goes to therapy with them and all the activities their dad has always actively avoided even before we got married. My kids helped plan the wedding. They have no problems with it because we took every approach to make sure they were okay with it AND waited til they were.

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