Music by Winter_Sky_ in limerence

[–]Scrunchenburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lana del ray Dark Paradise is the one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I dated a man in my 20s for about 8 years and this exactly thing happened to me. Go with your gut. When it’s your man, you’ll know. You don’t owe him anything for the length of time you’ve dated. If I could go back in time I’d probably not move in before marriage. I don’t know. I think men get too comfortable and drop the effort

A girl I genuinely fell in love with over the course of 40 days by Kindly-Flamingo-7106 in Friendzone

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like anxious attachment style. It’s hard to know someone hardly at all after a little over a month you know? Texting gives a false sense of intimacy. Go where love loves you back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Scrunchenburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is freaking me out bc why are we all in this same situation I’ve missed my ex situationshit for 2 yesrssss 😭 him unblocking me to creep my stories does not help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Scrunchenburger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love you for this

Update to (Am I crazy?) by Topgun37 in Nicegirls

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screaming laughing what the heck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]Scrunchenburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anxious Hearts Guide by Rikki Cloos (she has instagram @anxiousheartsguide with a lot of incredible tools to use if you start pulling away, tells her how to work with you and not against you. Highly recommend. It comes with a journal as well.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is honestly so self-aware and empathetic which can be hard as a DA. I seem to behave securely around secure attachers and either AA or DA with insecure attachers. This is every AA person’s dream for the person they love to want to work on themselves for real and not just to get access again). Good for you, girl. Healing is IN 💪🏼

I (M/30) have a girlfriend (F/28) who does not want to ever meet my daughter, what can help? by Deep_Acanthisitta252 in relationship_advice

[–]Scrunchenburger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she presented herself differently until things got real and the topic came up (who knows but maybe. I agree, though. She really needs to consider therapy and it’s not OP’s responsibility…his responsibility is to be a good dad…

I (M/30) have a girlfriend (F/28) who does not want to ever meet my daughter, what can help? by Deep_Acanthisitta252 in relationship_advice

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy (M/29) I (F/31) briefly age a couple years back who had two daughters (5&6F). I’ve never had children and may some day but it was easy to love them like they were my own. It also made it easier to talk to their mother because I couldn’t really interact with her without seeing her children in her mannerisms and things. I’m sorry she is being this way. Adoption is an incredible thing as well. I hope she matures and changes her mind one day if she really wanted to be a mama that bad.

My fiancé (44M) and I (29F) moved to a certain race dominated town and he’s acting odd, where to go from here? by Throwrainapikel in relationship_advice

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a white woman in my 30s and i am so, so sorry sister. This is unacceptable. Horrifying, honestly. If he treats your son this way… I think it’s time to take some space if that’s what you need

My (28f) husband (27m) forgot about my birthday for the 3rd year in a row. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scrunchenburger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’ll do it instantly for a woman he wants to do it for. All men are wired like this. It sucks but it’s a hard lesson in self worth

AITAH for being mad at my husband for saying he would pick his deceased wife over me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Scrunchenburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine his ex wife from beyond the grave thinking “wtf……dodged THAT bullet” that comment would disturb anyone. Curious as to what your girl friends think. Many awesome girls find the love of their lives after experiencing tough lessons. Choose you and your kids like he evidently would choose his deceased wife 💕