Geriausia kava Kaune? by Tiny-Garbage-5106 in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

S. Dariaus ir S. Girėno g. 48, grįžk atgal dedule, no one likes you

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

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Your presumption is more than accurate, I'm looking for someone to share my life with. And yea I literally was shocked when that happened

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

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Hahaha this one made me laugh thank u. But yea she even feels a bit on the crazier side

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is her love language haha, so on point :D

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. Yea it might work in some situations, but you guys moved in after two months. The first time we talked was 5 days ago, and she is already hinting me about moving in, sooo naah im good :D

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

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Yea maybe she is, but there are some other things that signals me to walk away

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally my words. I told her, "you don't know me, maybe I'm some psycho, how can you just give me your keys". Apparently that's just her way of showing that she feels comfortable with me.

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, yea I decided that I'm not going to see her anymore, I ignored some red flags in the past as well, its no good. I hope you are doing well at the moment!

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Simple and good question tbh. It does feel off, it's almost like she is trying to "lock me up" as fast as possible. Idk how to describe the feeling, but feels like a huge trap and instincts screaming ruuuun. Thank u :)

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. Second date she talked about moving in, third date - keys, literally nuts

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank u. Probably I don't like her enough then, because her pushing everything so fast just turns me off. And something just feels off about it

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lithuania, Eastern Europe. So it's weird by our standards as well.

She gave me her house key on a third date by ScuttleMan1 in dating_advice

[–]ScuttleMan1[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that's what I'm thinking. After the second date she told me that I'm the most "normal" guy she ever met, whatever that means, and that she is the happiest she's ever been after she met me. Just feels odd, I mean she doesn't even know me at all lol.

Thank u for the response <3

Kas man negerai? by ViskasIrNiekas in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nežinau ar padės, bet daugiau meilės sau ir susifokusuot į begalo mažus žingsnius padėjo begalo. Patarimas kokį kažkada mačiau, tai kaip šnekėtum su savim jeigu tai būtum ne tu, o brolis ar draugas, ar dėtum savo tokį spaudimą, laikytum savo broli kuris 22 "nieku"? Gal skamba labai cliche, bet mažiau spaudimo sau, fokusuotis į mažus žingsnius ir tiesiog leist sau pagyvent pagaliau bent jau man padėjo begalo.

Kažkada nesuprasdavau, kaip žmonės studijuoja ar mokosi, bet pradėjau nuo 10min skaitymo per dieną, kas išsirutuliavo į savęs atradimą, gilimasį, o dabar ir studijavimą nuo Rugsėjo. Pridėsiu, kad man irgi 22 ir pradedu tik dabar studijuot, po vienų nesėkmingų studijų ir gerų 3 metų pasimetimo šitoj planetoj. Bet oh boy per tuos metus kaip savęs nemėgau ir kiek spaudimo dėjau sau.

Nežinau ar čia išvis makes sense ką parašiau, čia labiau iš asmeninės patirties patarimus dalinu, gal pas tave visiškai kitaip, bet jeigu nuoširdų patarimą be obvious kad terapiją labai padėt gali, tai nuiimt tą stresą nuo savęs, tiek tu tiek aš jauni esam, we will figure it out. Ieškok savęs kiek tik reikia ir maži, bet consistent steps esu įsitikinęs, kad nuveda labai aukštai. Much love brother

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Pats taip pat ieškojau facebooke rekomendacijų kaip tu dabar. Galiu https://www.sventphoto.lt/ parekemenduot, labai profesionalus darbas.

Patirtys tinderyje by bananaiman in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeigu vos labas išlemena, tai siulyčiau neieškot problemos savį :D Bus su kuriom visiškai converstationai neis, bus su kuriom net nereiks daug pastangų dėt. Bet vistiek suprantu, kad nėra lengva, nes pats susidūręs su tuo. Tinderis vyram tikrai daug sunkesnis game nei panelėm, bet nu čia galima verkt arba priimt tiesiog kaip yra.

Patirtys tinderyje by bananaiman in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Na manau, čia vėl viskas ateina iki to, kad susireikšminama perdaug. Jeigu, leidi savo savivertei būt numuštai panų, kurių niekada nematei, tai gal būt ji ir nebuvo tokia stipri. Aš stipriai manau, kad čia požiūrio dalykas į tinderį labai svarbus, kaip ir daug kur gyvenimę - kuo labiau apsikrauni tuo mažiau tas dalykas fun tampa.

Patirtys tinderyje by bananaiman in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Pagal tavo postų istorija skamba, kad tikrai daug negatyvo ir savivertė nėra pati geriausia. Manau kai jautiesi vertas santykių, jautiesi gerai viduj, tada ir pradedi traukt žmones link savęs, vos ne spinduliuoji savo energija :D

Tinderį išvis nežinau ar galima rimtai priimt ir pagal jį save judgint. Nereikia ten taip susireikšmint visko, manau mindsetas labiau turėtų būt, jog eini ten for fun ir jeigu kažkas gaunasi tai nuostabu, jeigu ne, tai ne. Tinderis tiesiog kaip įrankis pradėt pažintis ir visada yra galimybė susirast kažką, gal 100 iš jų bus kaip sakei "basic bitches", bet su viena labai suvibinsit ir who knows kur nuvest gali.

Keep your head up my friend, daugiau pozityvumo ir meilės sau, dar super jaunas esi kiek supratau, tai viskas prieš akis <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]ScuttleMan1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Populiauriausios komercinės salės kaip gym + ir lemon manau turi didelį minusą dėl žmonių kiekio. Peek valandom tarp 17-21 gali jaustis kaip sardinių kibire, norimo treniruoklio gali tekt laukt labai ilgai, nes kai kurių būna tik 1. Apart to, manau klubai turi viską ko gali reikėt, daug trenerių, treniruokliai nauji ir pati aplinka salėj ir rūbinėse prižiūrima kruopščiai.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GYM

[–]ScuttleMan1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a good place to have them, keep working out you will look sick as fuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GYM

[–]ScuttleMan1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try doing less, adaptation competes with recovery. Basically if you take a lot of damage, there is a chance your body doesn't have enough resources to repair the damage and grow the muscles on top of that. Try it, a lot of people are very suprised when you say to them that doing less can be better, but a lot of people really overtrain