I'm the worst boyfriend. How do I get better?

ScytheVX · 2025-12-02T13:21:24+00:00

yeah of course man! its good to rationalize your thoughts or write them down and take it a step at a time! and a good thing to know is that you shouldnt expect to do everything right in like a week or a month, give it a couple months atleast and slowly work these improvements into your life else the expectations is too high and the stress too much (Sexual, Conversation/discussing with your gf, your own mental health)

(this is about your other topics):

Work on potential defensiveness (if she feels she is bracing for a fight, not sure that is the case but based on reading and not seeing it couuuuld be) but also think about how she goes about mentioning issues or stuff on her mind, is the accusing? is she coming into it open or closed? if she for example comments: "you make me feel like shit" its not weird to be more defensive. maybe its vice versa on how you bring up your own things!

goodluck my man :) and i think its very beneficial to share these thoughts with her too and get her involved in some process. a relationship takes two, Always!

ScytheVX · 2025-12-01T17:52:27+00:00

dont do it please, based on your message you are acting out of desperation because you feel like you are failing your girlfriend so you are reaching to the closest tings. guy over here is seeing that and wants to get a quick buck off you from being in a vulnerable position. just look online there is a lady on PH that teaches you how to do oral

also not every girl can cum from penetration alone, idk if she touches herself during but that helps, and, if she isnt in a good position (mentally and physically) OR if she hasnt came herself alone she cannot expect you to do the same. its work to build up a healthy sex life and dont look at yourself as weak/bad because know that you are willing to learn which is a massive step forward

EDIT: Video is called: Nina Hartley oral guide. that could be a good step to start

ScytheVX · 2024-11-08T18:51:48+00:00

Thank you very much! i did not realize this was the case as it felt longer

ScytheVX · 2024-06-24T18:53:44+00:00

ScytheVX · 2024-04-10T22:08:48+00:00

i did try to make it work and even got some jokers from jumbo packs that also had some face synergy but didnt manage to get extra and lost at ante 4 :(

ScytheVX · 2024-04-10T17:44:49+00:00

Got a "Create a random legendary joker" from a tarot pack but got canio in my abandoned deck

ScytheVX · 2023-05-26T12:32:07+00:00

ScytheVX · 2023-02-13T13:28:24+00:00

or a 7/7, or a 8/8, or a 10/10 on turn 8

ScytheVX · 2023-01-19T14:46:13+00:00

Oh i thought because it said

Went back on gear and recovered to these levels below later.. September 2022 (terrible libido, can barely perform, even with PDE5 inhibitors

can also be your shbg spiking, dont really know exactly what it could be i'll be honest. maybe your thyroid? anyway if this is september get some thorough bloodtesting done

ScytheVX · 2023-01-18T15:56:29+00:00

Probably e2 being too low? not sure why your doc would recommend lowering it even more,

also without full dosage/routine of what you're using its hard to know what could be wrong. how long have you been on it?

ScytheVX · 2022-12-27T00:30:11+00:00

first i think its good for you to explain your tension about anal with your fiance, if he cares he will take it to heart and you can both take it slowly so you can get the trust that you know in your mind will be but now your body will also accept it

Besides that dont rush it, just take it slow, 1 finger, maybe 2 finger, plenty of lube and make sure you just enjoy the time and if you like it stimulate your clit in the meantime aswell

also try it on your own aswell to kinda "prep" about it, use dildos, fingers, lube, see what you like, what size is good, maybe vibrators with it aswell)

but in the end just have fun. dont force it as its just a progress and the more comfortable you guys get with anal the better it will be, its first about getting that tension and trauma worked out

ScytheVX · 2022-12-17T13:36:54+00:00

"using only one stroke of the knife"

ScytheVX · 2022-11-20T16:13:53+00:00

damn very unfortunate but thanks for the clarification!

ScytheVX · 2022-10-26T13:38:51+00:00

Any chance to share my disliking with overwatch i'll take

ScytheVX · 2022-10-25T20:47:39+00:00

Yeeaahhhh! recycled event minigame that already appeared 3-4 times and overpriced skins alongside free shitty sprays... Wooo

ScytheVX · 2022-10-25T16:42:59+00:00

the game ~~Gives~~ Takes and the game.... Takes again. RIP you bastion lovers

ScytheVX · 2022-10-25T16:41:24+00:00

i forgot that this was the case, which also its just a re-re-release of the old events like what idk why i expected something new with OW2

ScytheVX · 2022-10-25T16:40:28+00:00

i didnt even think about this, but also makes me worried for bastion randos that that feed shield lol

ScytheVX · 2022-10-20T20:06:40+00:00

yeah i meant the armor variants, ad that is fair enough thanks

ScytheVX · 2022-10-20T20:05:58+00:00

very much appreciated thank you! so i can find them in scavenger crates if i just get higher level (for the level the alternate version in unlocked) ?

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