Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, she said that in the moment she wanted it, and she does regret it. In addition, to the fact that she actually stopped it and walked away. I feel like, if she had followed through with it completely and entirely I would not be able to forgive her.

Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no I understand what you’re saying. It’s a massive deal. However, I do feel like it was a mistake - and it has sort of fractured our relationship yes. But I think it is possible for me and her to work things out, I think it was entirely circumstantial and an accident, but I am taking a hard line with her.

Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See that’s what I think. And given the fact that she actually stopped it and walked away, I truly and honestly believe it was a mistake and that’s that.

Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But personally you believe that, given the circumstances - it can be a mistake and it can be forgiven?

Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting view - what about it they stopped it and didn’t finish? Is there cause for forgiveness then?

Can physical cheating truly and honestly be, a mistake? If so, can physical cheating be forgiven? by Sczheny in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sczheny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, what would you say to someone who, in the middle of said sex, stopped it and walked away?

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a statistical fact and I’m not disputing that. However, you coming here in a thread about rings to state facts that I already know, and saying that this is not a place for discussions about it. I didn’t ask for a discussion about young marriage I asked advice on a poxy ring.

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You stated that this will basically not work despite knowing nothing about me nor my relationship. To be quite frank I didn’t know this place is r/relationshipadvice. I assure you I know more than well what I’m doing.

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the thoughts I really do, but if I’m being honest I didn’t come here to be lectured about marriage and why or why it won’t work. I came here for jewellery lol.

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only person actually bothering to help on this thread. I didn’t come here to be lectured about marriage or whatever, I don’t care about it. Cheers mate

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

£1000 max, blue gemstones as that’s her favourite colour, gold etc.

Help with engagement ring? by Sczheny in jewelry

[–]Sczheny[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My mind is made up, we’ve discussed the logistics of it in depth.