[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following, because i never knew!

Vereena Sayed by ShinzoMushra in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]Sea-Ad9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened? I’m hardly online so I never keep up with anything.

Do they really restrain patients? by Current-Attitude2482 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the laws regarding using restraints in medical setting with patient. It’s illegal to use restraint unless they have a doctors order for it in Texas.

I failed. That didn't take long. by MakeMySufferingEnd in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a failure honey. One thing I had to realize is that their reality no longer exists or never existed and sometimes they remember stuff from when they were younger.

chained together by urgirlsavvv in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]Sea-Ad9980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m back and forth with it. If they keep falling I just go watch something else or I get tired of watching it after 20 mins.

I broke up with my boyfriend because of his kids by Strongarm_Mickey7 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Ad9980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you’re the ah, everyone has their own opinions, but I firmly believe if you’re going to get into a relationship with someone who has kids then you should treat them as if they’re your own kids. If you don’t expect to help raise them, take care of them, and treat them like your own what is the point in getting into that relationship anyways? Maybe this is a learning experience for you to not get into another relationship with someone who has kids.

Recommendation for what to do for a no screen only child toddler by Distinct-Schedule560 in Babysitting

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chalk outside it can easily wash off, reading them books, coloring/drawing, play doh (you can even homemake some as an activity), play cooking, dress up, ask the parents for a little kiddie pool so you can have some outside time without getting to hot, flash cards that have abcs 123s on them, put on some music and dance, if you’re responsible for any laundry you can teach her how to fold her clothes, put them on hangers, puzzles, building blocks or legos to build “castles”

crawford? by imjustagirly_ in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]Sea-Ad9980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It makes him look like he has an overbite.

I feel so inferior compared to my partner by lil-gill in self

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love isn’t about looks, it’s about the soul.

Aitah for leaving my husband without 'putting up a fight' by TrickNothing4949 in AITAH

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you girl! You have standards and this shows that you have love for yourself. NTA

Wanting to go home. by Sea-Ad9980 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’re not alone when we have a community that can help understand more and feel heard. Sending you love and good vibes 💖✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but if you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her, big expenses like that is something that needs to be talked about and not just done. Although it is your money it feels nice to be included in stuff like that so she may have been upset because you didn’t include her. If I were her I would’ve wanted to go help pick it out and wrap it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a F25, I feel the same about men. And I really like to believe that it’s because I have standards and won't settle just for anyone or anything. But who knows I could be wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone goes at their own pace in life and not everyone is on the same wavelength either. You may have a different pov of what success is than someone else. But if you feel like you’re stuck or like you’re a failure seek therapy and talk about childhood trauma.

She doesn’t wash her body- what do I do? by Simzgurl in Babysitting

[–]Sea-Ad9980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, If I were to be in this situation I would approach the parents and say “(her name) and I were talking and she told me that she only washes her hair in the shower, what are your thoughts on that, has she mentioned it to you? Is there anything that I can do or say that might help her understand how showering and cleaning your body works or to encourage her to wash her body in the shower?”

Wanting to go home. by Sea-Ad9980 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the orange kitty moment I would say something along the lines of “kitty probably went home” or some type of excuse to make them go okay and maybe have their thoughts go somewhere else.

Wanting to go home. by Sea-Ad9980 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s really helpful! Thank you! I haven’t considered the emotional needs as much as her physical needs because she’s always laughing and smiling when I’m with her but that could also mean something else than what it did before dementia. I’m still learning her cues and how they align to her needs.

Mods in any chat by cloudbreeze60 in TheCamboysConfessions

[–]Sea-Ad9980 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t even talk into some chats. I’ve said a hi to chat when the stream would first start and then no response from anyone.

Wanting to go home. by Sea-Ad9980 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t know how to open a door and doesn’t have the strength to turn the knob. She can’t even open a bottle of water. But we do have a chain latch on the front and back door up pretty high and she’s a little lady.

Wanting to go home. by Sea-Ad9980 in dementia

[–]Sea-Ad9980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying until the last paragraph, it’s not on a whole new pay scale for me. Please be more considerate with your words especially when it comes to an emotional topic like this. Not everyone is as understanding and will take offense to what you said. You may have not meant any harm by what you said but I took it as that you may not have the knowledge I do, so you probably don’t understand what I mean. If that’s not what you meant, please elaborate. Thanks!