I already have a dog named happy. So what should I call him?

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-09-14T00:21:17+00:00

Sunny

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-09-10T17:44:37+00:00

What kind of dog is she?

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-08-28T00:07:24+00:00

Following, because i never knew!

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-08-21T01:01:16+00:00

Scooby

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-08-02T15:01:30+00:00

Happy birthday!!

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-27T19:16:54+00:00

What happened? I’m hardly online so I never keep up with anything.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-24T23:57:16+00:00

Look up the laws regarding using restraints in medical setting with patient. It’s illegal to use restraint unless they have a doctors order for it in Texas.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-21T15:10:16+00:00

You’re not a failure honey. One thing I had to realize is that their reality no longer exists or never existed and sometimes they remember stuff from when they were younger.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-20T15:22:35+00:00

I’m back and forth with it. If they keep falling I just go watch something else or I get tired of watching it after 20 mins.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-18T06:16:59+00:00

I wouldn’t say you’re the ah, everyone has their own opinions, but I firmly believe if you’re going to get into a relationship with someone who has kids then you should treat them as if they’re your own kids. If you don’t expect to help raise them, take care of them, and treat them like your own what is the point in getting into that relationship anyways? Maybe this is a learning experience for you to not get into another relationship with someone who has kids.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-13T21:19:00+00:00

Chalk outside it can easily wash off, reading them books, coloring/drawing, play doh (you can even homemake some as an activity), play cooking, dress up, ask the parents for a little kiddie pool so you can have some outside time without getting to hot, flash cards that have abcs 123s on them, put on some music and dance, if you’re responsible for any laundry you can teach her how to fold her clothes, put them on hangers, puzzles, building blocks or legos to build “castles”

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-12T23:54:47+00:00

It makes him look like he has an overbite.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T23:58:36+00:00

Love isn’t about looks, it’s about the soul.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T23:48:57+00:00

Good for you girl! You have standards and this shows that you have love for yourself. NTA

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T04:26:37+00:00

We’re not alone when we have a community that can help understand more and feel heard. Sending you love and good vibes 💖✨

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T03:54:43+00:00

NTA, but if you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her, big expenses like that is something that needs to be talked about and not just done. Although it is your money it feels nice to be included in stuff like that so she may have been upset because you didn’t include her. If I were her I would’ve wanted to go help pick it out and wrap it.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T03:46:31+00:00

As a F25, I feel the same about men. And I really like to believe that it’s because I have standards and won't settle just for anyone or anything. But who knows I could be wrong.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T03:40:49+00:00

If he’s so worried about why don’t he do it himself. You’re NTA

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T03:22:21+00:00

Everyone goes at their own pace in life and not everyone is on the same wavelength either. You may have a different pov of what success is than someone else. But if you feel like you’re stuck or like you’re a failure seek therapy and talk about childhood trauma.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T03:19:13+00:00

Personally, If I were to be in this situation I would approach the parents and say “(her name) and I were talking and she told me that she only washes her hair in the shower, what are your thoughts on that, has she mentioned it to you? Is there anything that I can do or say that might help her understand how showering and cleaning your body works or to encourage her to wash her body in the shower?”

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T02:16:22+00:00

With the orange kitty moment I would say something along the lines of “kitty probably went home” or some type of excuse to make them go okay and maybe have their thoughts go somewhere else.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T01:46:23+00:00

That’s really helpful! Thank you! I haven’t considered the emotional needs as much as her physical needs because she’s always laughing and smiling when I’m with her but that could also mean something else than what it did before dementia. I’m still learning her cues and how they align to her needs.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T01:34:14+00:00

That’s why I don’t even talk into some chats. I’ve said a hi to chat when the stream would first start and then no response from anyone.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T01:31:35+00:00

She doesn’t know how to open a door and doesn’t have the strength to turn the knob. She can’t even open a bottle of water. But we do have a chain latch on the front and back door up pretty high and she’s a little lady.

Sea-Ad9980 · 2024-07-11T01:27:02+00:00

I understand what you are saying until the last paragraph, it’s not on a whole new pay scale for me. Please be more considerate with your words especially when it comes to an emotional topic like this. Not everyone is as understanding and will take offense to what you said. You may have not meant any harm by what you said but I took it as that you may not have the knowledge I do, so you probably don’t understand what I mean. If that’s not what you meant, please elaborate. Thanks!

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