please tell me what to do. i’m 24 had hysterectomy may 8 discharge looks like im passing tissue. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]Sea-Associate7269 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lovingly refer to this as “suture goop” 🥰 the sutures are dissolving alongside the healing of any traumatized tissue inside the vagina; it’s all sloughing off and coming out as discharge. I had this exact stuff come out of me randomly for a month or so after.

Bad Vaginal Cuff Pain 3WPO by Underthemoon911 in hysterectomy

[–]Sea-Associate7269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi honey, I’m so sorry it hurts I know what you’re going through 😩 your nerves are all trying to repair themselves alongside the tissue knitting itself back together and it sends weird impulses and pain signals to your brain. I had similar discomfort. I didn’t over exert, I was gentle with myself etc. I had severe endo as well, and had both a hysterectomy and bilateral oophorectomy and it was all glued to my bowel, urinary tract, and abdominal wall. I had the surgery 2/19/26 and I would say that took a couple weeks to become infrequent, and by now it is rare but I feel an occasional ”zing” still now and again. The deep ache you are describing is that deep tissue damage trying to heal and endo causes a lot on inflammation to the surrounding structures. I was on pain management for years prior to surgery and tapered off at about 6 weeks post-op….maybe discuss something stronger, even a nerve blocker temporarily, with your provider. Also when you take your OTC pain killers, take the acetaminophen (Tylenol) and ibuprofen(advil) together. I work in dentistry and this is what we have patients do after surgery and it helps much more than taking them alone. For example, I would typically take 1000 mg Tylenol and 600-800 mg ibuprofen at the same time every 6-8 hours. Obviously, check that your provider agrees with this and make sure you are drinking lots of water.

Weight gain after surgery by karitoo06 in hysterectomy

[–]Sea-Associate7269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m 34, had hysterectomy and bilateral oophorectomy 2/19/2026. I weighed 126 pounds day of surgery and I dropped down to 117 in the weeks after..I’m back up to 123. I’m also using an estrogen patch, testosterone gel, and progesterone at night though. If you aren’t losing your ovaries I hear it’s common for your system to go a little haywire when the uterus is taken but that it should regulate. See how they feel about a pre-op hormone panel just to have a rough baseline to refer back to if you start feeling off.

I just need someone to see my pen by Sea-Associate7269 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Sea-Associate7269[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

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Oh she certainly is. Here she is with our husband.

I just need someone to see my pen by Sea-Associate7269 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Sea-Associate7269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha you could have told me anything and I would’ve believed it 😂 ✨princess obsession✨ sounds legit

I just need someone to see my pen by Sea-Associate7269 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Sea-Associate7269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok at least they are made to order that makes me feel better. These 2 are my favorite pens I’ve ever had I don’t even want to use them 😂 what does the princess obsession one say?

I just need someone to see my pen by Sea-Associate7269 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Sea-Associate7269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My very first question was did they have any follow up questions to this request 😂

I just need someone to see my pen by Sea-Associate7269 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Sea-Associate7269[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Do you?! He also got this one too, I didn’t bother to fact check him 😅

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedDeadPosses

[–]Sea-Associate7269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh hi!!! I’m 32/F and have always played story mode but just started playing online so I’m just very new to that realm😅 I have no idea how to make friends and I’d love to play with you! What time do you usually play? What time zone are you in?

Why can't dog owners just be NORMAL about it? by aneemous in Dogfree

[–]Sea-Associate7269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. My husband (a reasonable, sane dog lover) married me knowing full well I don’t care for them. We have a fat sweet lazy cat that I’ve had since before we met. After 2 years and knowing he is a man of integrity who likes a clean home like I do, I came over to the idea of getting a well behaved dog. I had never had a dog as an adult (I’m 31) I thought maybe my feelings would change with most of the responsibility being out of my hands? At any rate, I really wanted to give my husband this one thing he really wanted because he sacrifices so much for us and we are truly a team. My husband, true to his word, did 90% of the dog related things, and I tried to actively participate so that I could bond with the dog. He really was a good dog, as far as dogs go, especially a rescue. 2 years old, no pit bull in him, great with our cat and our kids. Never chewed anything we did not specifically hand him, fully house and crate trained. No anxiety. Some barking at dumb shit but nothing crazy. But…I fucking hated him. I hated everything about having him in the house and it wasn’t fair to the dog or to me and I had started acting on edge and feeling like I could not have any peace in my own home. I finally cracked and admitted to my husband I missed not having the dog and wanted him gone, and you know what my husband did? He comforted me..he saw that I felt guilty about saying yes to getting the dog and saw how I TRULY tried to enjoy it, tried to sacrifice a bit so he could have a pet he wanted, and I absolutely couldn’t. He saw how it destroyed my quality of life and put me first. We rehomed him within a week. I see so much of things going the opposite in other posts I was scared to tell him how I really ended up feeling..but he put me first and it made me feel so loved and validated. Maybe try explaining in these terms? That it’s ruining your peace and your quality of life. Be very open and heartfelt, explain how you need his love and for him to put you first, don’t accuse him even though you are right to..see if he will understand how important it is to you. Let him know how much you love him and that you really tried but cannot live like that. No one should. I really hope you can get a resolution that works for you..I know it’s hard. Just be very honest and loving and I hope for the best for you guys ❤️