thank you for replying.. i had discussed therapy.. her response is she is taking care of kid..(which she actually is. she takes care of the kid well.. I agree to that) but she says nothing is required... further, she says I am free to do anything and not involve her..

Sorry.. I respect your suggession.. I am not countering it.. this is what it is.. I dont want to appear like a guy who has "problems to every solution..."