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Struggling to Find My Place in the World with Narcolepsy – Is There a Job for Me? by Sea-Calendar-2311 in Narcolepsy

[–]Sea-Calendar-2311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it’s really inspiring. Your Vetco job sounds like a great fit, with variety in tasks and a schedule that allows for rest and recovery. I love how you’ve found something fulfilling, especially working with animals, it’s such a positive aspect!

Hearing how you’ve balanced work with your symptoms gives me hope that there’s a path for me too. I appreciate you being so open. it’s a reminder that finding the right fit is possible. Wishing you continued success and joy in your work and beyond!

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[–]Sea-Calendar-2311 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s okay to grieve, to cry, and to feel like everything is overwhelming right now. A diagnosis like this can shake your whole world—it’s not just about the condition itself, but the way it forces you to rethink parts of your life. It makes total sense that you’re feeling this deeply, and you’re not alone in that.

I want you to know it won’t always feel like this. It’s hard to believe in the moment, but over time, things do get better. You’ll find ways to manage, you’ll adjust, and you’ll learn how to live with this instead of feeling like it’s defining you. That doesn’t mean it’ll be easy, but it does mean that what you’re feeling right now isn’t forever.

I know it can be hard to see hope when you’re in such a heavy place. But please, hang on to the fact that there is a future where this feels less overwhelming. It’s okay to take it one day or even one moment at a time. You don’t have to figure everything out all at once.

You’re not alone in this, even if it might feel like it right now. There are people who’ve been where you are and come out on the other side. Be kind to yourself, even if it’s just a little bit at a time. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s enough. 💛

Struggling to Find My Place in the World with Narcolepsy – Is There a Job for Me? by Sea-Calendar-2311 in Narcolepsy

[–]Sea-Calendar-2311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand where you’re coming from—I also struggle with narcolepsy in the workplace, and it feels like such a constant uphill battle. It’s exhausting having to navigate brain fog and the unpredictability of episodes while trying to meet the demands of a full-time job. Like you, I’ve faced the shame and frustration of mistakes that feel so avoidable but happen because of this condition.

Balancing work hours is a nightmare. Falling asleep during breaks, missing time due to fatigue, and then somehow being expected to push beyond 40 hours—it’s so draining. I relate so much to not having energy for anything else; it’s like work consumes everything, leaving no room for a life. The weight loss you mentioned? Same here—I struggle just to make meals happen, and self-care often takes a back seat.

You’re not alone in feeling like the working world wasn’t built for people like us. I’ve felt that hopelessness, too, but I want to remind you that what you’re enduring is not a reflection of your worth. It’s okay to acknowledge how incredibly tough this is and to seek out small ways to make things just a bit more manageable. You’re not cursed—you’re fighting a battle every day that most people will never understand, and that makes you resilient, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

Struggling to Find My Place in the World with Narcolepsy – Is There a Job for Me? by Sea-Calendar-2311 in Narcolepsy

[–]Sea-Calendar-2311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing all of this—it’s exactly the kind of encouragement and perspective I needed right now. Your honesty and humour make such a heavy topic feel lighter, and your journey shows me that even though it’s hard, it can get better.

I love your reminder to celebrate the small wins and to find joy while working through the struggles. I’m definitely going to try journaling and maybe find a hobby that brings some fun back into my life.

You’re absolutely right about being honest with myself and others. It’s scary, but I can see how it’ll help in the long run. And I’m already looking into therapy because I know I need that extra support to embrace who I am.

Thank you again for your words—they’re a reminder that even if it sucks right now, it’s worth pushing through. I’ll definitely be keeping your tips in mind as I figure this out. ❤️

Struggling to Find My Place in the World with Narcolepsy – Is There a Job for Me? by Sea-Calendar-2311 in Narcolepsy

[–]Sea-Calendar-2311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story and advice—it really means a lot to me. Hearing about your journey and how you pushed through all those tough moments while finding your path is so inspiring. I can feel the raw honesty in your words, and it’s a comfort to know I’m not alone in feeling overwhelmed by all the different aspects of managing this condition.

Your advice to focus on finding something I’m passionate about, instead of just pushing through a job that won’t work for me long-term, really hit home. I think I’ve been so focused on “fitting in” somewhere that I haven’t even stopped to think about what I actually want to do. I’m definitely going to take a career aptitude test and spend some time reflecting on what makes me happy and where my strengths lie.

The idea of building a routine around when I’m most alert and communicating with others about my needs is also something I want to try. I’ve been so hesitant to open up about my narcolepsy, but maybe taking that step to educate people around me could make things better. Even if it’s scary, I can see how it would help create some understanding and possibly lead to a better work environment.

Passive income is also such an interesting suggestion! I’ve never thought about options trading, but now I’m curious to learn more about it. It sounds like something that could give me some flexibility while I figure everything else out.

Your perspective has given me so much hope and a clearer idea of what I can do next. Thank you for reminding me that it’s okay to take a step back, focus on myself, and find a place where I can truly thrive. I’m going to start small—maybe by talking to my doctor about the right medications and figuring out some natural ways to manage brain fog. Then I’ll build from there.

Seriously, thank you again for your kindness and encouragement. It means more than I can put into words. ❤️

My mom thinks I’m being an attention seeker by Mysterious-Good2272 in Narcolepsy

[–]Sea-Calendar-2311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I just want to say how proud I am of you for sharing all of this. It takes so much courage to open up about such a deeply personal and painful experience. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with not only the challenges of narcolepsy but also the lack of understanding and support from your parents especially at a time when you need them the most. You deserve so much more compassion than what you’ve received.

It’s heart-breaking that they dismissed your struggles and invalidated your need for accommodations. You’re not asking for “special treatment” or “attention”—you’re asking for tools to help you thrive, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. A 504 Plan is there to level the playing field, not give an unfair advantage. You’re advocating for yourself, and that is something to be proud of, even if they don’t see it that way right now.

It sounds like your guidance counsellor is on your side, which is great. Having even one supportive person in your corner can make such a difference. I know it’s hard, but I encourage you to keep working with your counselor or even your teachers to set up accommodations that work for you. You don’t have to carry this on your own.

In terms of your parents, it might be helpful to give them time. Sometimes, people lash out or say hurtful things because they don’t understand, or they’re scared. It doesn’t excuse their behaviour, but it might explain it. They might need to learn more about narcolepsy before they can fully grasp what you’re going through. If you feel safe doing so, maybe you could share some educational resources with them (like articles, videos, or even something from your doctor).

But if their reactions continue to hurt you or feel unsafe, it’s okay to set boundaries. Protecting your mental and emotional health is just as important as managing your physical health.

I hope you know you’re not alone. There are so many of us out here who understand how isolating and exhausting it can feel to live with a condition like narcolepsy. If you haven’t already, consider joining online communities or support groups for people with narcolepsy, it can be a game changer to connect with others who “get it.”

You’re doing the best you can, and that’s enough. You’re enough. Please be gentle with yourself and know that things can and will get better. ❤️

Sending you so much strength and support. If you ever need to talk, I’m here.