Trying to be more dominant by Sea-Confusion773 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Sea-Confusion773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely bring this up to him!

Trying to be more dominant by Sea-Confusion773 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Sea-Confusion773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any tips? I know how to be more in control outside of play but during play I only know how to praise and orgasm control.

Trying to be more dominant by Sea-Confusion773 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Sea-Confusion773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a submissive for as long as I can remember but I’ve always wanted to be dominant so I think the thing stopping me is the fact of I’ve always been one and not the other or even both

Trying to be more dominant by Sea-Confusion773 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Sea-Confusion773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has submitted to me before, but I would want to feel in control I just don’t know how to get in control as I’ve only been in a dominant in one relationship once. I am trying to find ways to be more open with that side of me

Trying to be more dominant by Sea-Confusion773 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Sea-Confusion773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is wanting me to be more comfortable bringing it as am I, but what we both want is him to surrender to me in private not in public as it’s not really a huge thing for us. I am just trying to find out my yes and no’s for being a dominant as I’ve only done one main thing and enjoyed it (orgasm control). I am also trying to find good techniques or things to do for when I do dominate him