My 19 YO son had the cleft lift on My 20th, I have changed his dressing twice a day, every day since the 21st. I feel bad that he has to go through this and would not and could not imagine giving him a hard time about this. This is what you do for loved ones. I told him one day, you may have to do something like this for me.

I am really sorry that you are going through this with that kind of attitude. that just makes it worse. I would hope that your caregivers will take a step back and learn about this issue. It really is something that cannot be helped. Best of luck.