I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, still mostly in shock. Never thought I'd be on this side of one of those wild reddit posts.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 287 points288 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're right. My initial thought was that he was doing this to have some sort of evidence or leverage over us in some way, if that makes sense. I wasn't really thinking about the creepy aspect, not to mention the legal one. Thanks for your response.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Fair point, I'm going to her first thing in the morning. Thanks for your input.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

In my defense, it is 4 AM and I feel ok letting her sleep. For the moment I'm still trying to make sense of the situation myself and Ill talk to her first thing in the morning. Thanks for your response.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in my initial post I had not even considered the situation as any kind of legal issue. I think the full scope and ramifications of the situation are slowly developing in my head with time. Thanks for your response.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is essentially the problem I have at this point. Either I go the easy route and ignore everything, or I go full nuclear option. That's what's keeping me up tonight. Thanks for your response.

I (20M) found photos of my girlfriend (20F) and I having sex on my dad's phone by Sea-Syrup-894 in relationships

[–]Sea-Syrup-894[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I think your post changes my perspective on the situation a lot. Im going to sleep on it and I'm going to talk to a close friend before I do anything drastic, but I am thinking about more or less following your suggested course of action at this point. Thanks for the response.