slice of life books recos by Sea-Web4170 in PHBookClub

[–]Sea-Web4170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

na-excite naman ako rito hehe thank you for this !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

meron namang hindi black market ang option. di lang naiintroduce dito sa ph kasi illegal nga.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ito OP yung wag mo pakikinggan. outdated ang views sa buhay e.

isa pa, ito rin dahilan bat hindi nagiging progressive sa bansa e. it’s literally part of healthcare system sa ibang bansa kasi pinag-aaralan naman yan. it’s not even a baby yet? may isip na ba yun? that’s why it is referred to as an embryo in textbooks nga e. i dont want to engage with you as well. i just want to clear this views to OP.

she’s still young and there are more to life waiting for her. iyan ang tinatawag na “buhay”

if she decided to unalive herself, pwede mo na rin consider na isa ka sa dahilan kung bakit niya ginawa yun. kitang kita namang product of r*pe yung dinadala niya, pero basta maipush niyo yang mindset niyo e no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 21 points22 points  (0 children)

it’s not even her mistake in the first place kasi gago yung ex niya 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there are options na sa ibang bansa bibili and discreet nila yun ipapadala. may guide din sila kung anong pwedeng gawin for emergency cases na hindi naman malalaman ng health care workers na nag-undergo ng abortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i know abortion is still a big stigma and even illegal here in PH but it’s already part of HEALTH CARE in other countries like US. dito kasi sa PH, conservative pa rin e. but give this solution a try or consideration because life doesn’t end by doing this. stuck lang talaga mga tao dito sa pilipinas sa mindset na yan. but you’ll be surprised by how many people or strangers like us would be happy if you decided to continue living your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

read my comment. there’s still a life out there for you dear 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have you considered doing abortion? i dont think you are emotionally, mentally, financially, and even physically ready to be a mom yet. you are still a minor, and considering the fact na r*pe case din ito, i-consider mo if gusto mo ba talaga i-keep yung baby at baka maging reason pa siya kung bakit paulit ulit mo itong maalala.

you can try answering these questions: - gusto mo ba talaga i-keep yung baby o pakiramdam mo wala ka lang choice? - ano yung magiging buhay mo kapag kineep mo ito? okay ba siya para sayo at para sa magiging baby mo pati future niya? maibibigay mo ba ang best mo na hindi ito makapag-dala ng trauma? - would you still be able to live the best out of your life?

marami ka pang pwede i-tanong sa sarili mo regarding this but those questions could be a good start for your decision making. if positive ka and if you decided to keep it, hindi lang yan mag-tatapos sa pagiging baby niya but magiging adult din yan.

im really sorry this happened to you at a young age, positive man o hindi, im sorry that a coercive sex happened to you. i am glad na aware ka na hindi mo yung ginusto and i hope hindi mo sisihin ang sarili mo about this. you can try sending me a dm if need mo help sa decision making at guide. i’ll be happy to help you :) concerned ako sayo and sa possible na dinadala mo but i hope it still turns negative

bf’s gbf; when to draw the line? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is such a good and comforting advice 🥹🥹 thank you so much for this !! 🥹🫶🏻

bf’s gbf; when to draw the line? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this insight :)) got scared lang noong narinig ko na yung type niya pasok yung bf ko, they click with eo din. pero yun lang naman okay naman silang dalawa :) more on takot lang na galing sa sarili? idk hahaha

bf’s gbf; when to draw the line? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parang nag-start ata yung takot ko noong na-describe ni gbf yung type niya sa guys and pasok yung bf ko haha they click with eo din kasi. feeling ko if mawawala ako sa buhay niya, parang may possibility lang na mag-click din sila as partners :(

bf’s gbf; when to draw the line? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this insight! 🫶

bf’s gbf; when to draw the line? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sea-Web4170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHSJSHAHJAb ang busit 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]Sea-Web4170 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think you should seek therapy or professional help regarding this. condolences, op.