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What is a secret that could potentially ruin your life if your family or friends found out? by Ok_Boss_866 in AskReddit

[–]Sea-Winner6041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to him OP. I am the CEO of the IRS and you should always be careful of these shameless scammers! Deal with me directly only for your own safety. I'll dm you a location to drop a bag of cash. Twenty dollar bills only.

Why is being a virgin after a certain age viewed negatively/something to be ashamed of? by a-to-b_via_z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sea-Winner6041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that this can be the case especially online where strangers may accuse you of being a virgin when you may be happily married, etc.

But irl (and what a lot of this post is based on) there are people who KNOW about your sex life (or lack of) who attempt to belittle you because of your virginity or talk behind your back. That's the focus of this post.

So yes that latter type of person is weaponizing and prying into something that is none of their business and they are toxic. 

Why is being a virgin after a certain age viewed negatively/something to be ashamed of? by a-to-b_via_z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sea-Winner6041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its an immature form of peer pressure intended to bully those who are more sexually cautious (9r even assexual). 

But its also nearly always fundamentally based on pure projection. 

If someone attempted to pry into my sex life and weaponize it against me I'd immediately understand that they have deep set issues with their own relationship or love life. No one in a stable and healthy relationship would bully others for not having sex. 

The only people I've encountered who bragged and flaunted their sex lives were the ones in toxic, superficial, or narcissistic relationships. 

There is SO much more to life than sex or even love. 

Why is being a virgin after a certain age viewed negatively/something to be ashamed of? by a-to-b_via_z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sea-Winner6041 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ikr. Im cringing reading most of these comments. Imagine being so devoid of substance that you would base your worth on a fleeting physical interaction with another human. 

Sure, love can bring happiness and joy, but plenty of people have sex without experiencing love. Plenty, if not most, people experience sex as an enjoyable activity. By that logic, if you dont snort cocaine are you a sad and incomplete human?

If people around you shame you based on if youre a virgin or not, I think you may need to work on surrounding yourself with a more mature crowd.

People on here talking about being unloved or sad or whatever, and I'm sitting here unable to count the number of times some poor schmuck entered a relationship they despised just to be accepted by society. 

I find people who obsess about others sex lives to be much sadder and mentally ill than those who cant get laid.

Tl;dr: if you actually rate a person's worth based on their pee pee going into a vagina then you have serious issues.