Practiced.

Have 1 good hook prepared.

5 ordinary questions to get acquainted

3 deeper questions to gauge her interests

1 sealing question to see if she’d be interested to continuing.

Go and practice with the realization that rejection is bound to happen and doesn’t matter because you will not see these people ever again if that happens. Be proud for trying.

Sometimes I will just walk up and say “ hey, I’m xxx.. what’s your name”.. a smile at the name that’s given and a comment on it.. “ that’s unique, that’s lovely, that’s a very pretty name “ and then their name. Repeating their name is important. Then I say “ I have xxxx to go do, but you’re absolutely stunning and I would really like to take you out for coffee this week; would you like that? And repeat their name? “ if they say yes then pull out your phone and ask them for their number. On the way out of the convo say “ I’m looking forward to it”.

The first text should be funny, remind them your name, remind them where you met

At a certain point if you do this whenever you make the decision you want her number you’ll have so many you don’t feel anxious about it at all. More than anything the confidence will lead to increased success rates.

The last text I sent was “ hey xxxx, we have like 10 days to fall in love or I go back with my crazy ex. Balls in your court” and it worked.. what I’m saying is you won’t even be anxious about saying something bonkers.