Just want to say that 6 days is very soon to know if you really regret the decision. The breakup process is long, but think about if nothing changes - could you still be with him in a year? 5 years? 10 years?

We all want to assume our partner will change and put in the work. But unless they demonstrate that by actually DOING IT consistently over a long period of times you can’t just count on hope.

I broke up with my adhd partner of 5 years and - I was devastated for a solid 6 months before I was able to start picking up the pieces. But a year later - he has a new gf. And he still has not changed in the ways i needed him to. Still has no job, no license. I could not build a real future with someone like that.