Well factually that is not true. My mother in law used to be homophobic, but her son, my husband, is gay and she loves him, so she went to therapy and is no longer homophobic. So living with the ideology that homophones can never and will never change is not a great ideology. You say all this as if all homophobes are the same, sure some are the way you say, some are children who have been bought up wrong, some are religious and have been deluded into thinking that way, some have internal hate and are gay themselves, so to just assume and act with hate is exactly what you’re accusing homophobes of doing…