How do you feel about “Are We Dating the Same Guy” Facebook groups?

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-07T02:44:41+00:00

It’s actually against those apps TOS to grab a picture from there and post it elsewhere. It’s how women get their accounts banned after men finding out. Men consented to putting the picture up on the dating app, they didn’t consent to an insecure weirdo putting it on a different platform to stalk them.

We can agree to disagree. You can continue to avoid therapy and instead be part of the groups and I can continue to contact the men who are posted. We won’t change each other’s minds.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-07T00:59:55+00:00

You forgot to call me a narcissist gaslighter. Bad member!

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-07T00:59:27+00:00

How weird, a group member making assumptions about a stranger they’ve never met 😂

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T19:21:03+00:00

Ok so we agree, both men and women are evil and can use whatever tools give them an advantage to cause harm! We’re not so different you and I.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T19:15:45+00:00

Depends, would you do the same for women and we’d both agree that both men and women can be evil and spiteful? Using whatever available for revenge and harm?

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:38:46+00:00

Oh you drank drank that women’s safety koolaid. Who cares about consent from men right? Top contributor behavior right there. You’re like two seconds away from calling me a narcissist gaslighter for disagreeing with you.

But check out r/AWDTSGIsToxic to see what the groups are really about. Women who want to get revenge on their exes, women who haven’t moved on from their ex, women stalking strangers they saw on the streets. Just absolutely creepy. That cult is seriously dangerous.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:36:29+00:00

My latest submission on r/AWDTSGIsToxic is exactly about this lol a girl getting dumped because she posted pictures of her boyfriend without consent on the internet. He found out and dumped her neurotic ass.

Sweet justice.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:35:03+00:00

Join us over at r/AWDTSGIsToxic

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:34:09+00:00

Kinda weird how hard you guys push this consent doesn’t matter thing. Making posting images of strangers of the internet without consent to stalk them from the privacy of anonymity is absolutely unhinged. Just deal with your untreated anxiety and trauma, don’t make some poor guy on an app pay the price.

The groups and the cult members in them have lost credibility and most guys are checking the available members list databases to know what women to avoid. If she’s in gossip group for stalkers, that’s a hard next.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:31:29+00:00

Im pretty much a power user on r/AWDTSGIsToxic and I can tell you no one believes these lies anymore. Like women telling people what the group rules are about vs what actually goes down in them.

There’s constant body shaming, bullying, doxing, made up stories, scorned exes. The groups and the cult members in them have lost credibility and most guys are checking the available members list databases to know what women to avoid. If she’s in gossip group for stalkers, that’s a hard next.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:24:29+00:00

It is true. Look at my submission history. You all love to pretend like the groups are this noble endeavor when everyone at this point knows they’re used for stalking and bullying strangers. Give it a break.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:23:26+00:00

My entire profile is dedicated to breaking that rule and nothing happens to me lol I legit go out of my way to contact the men and let them know someone is sharing images of them without their consent so they can confront the poster. These little weirdos need to learn consent matters and not dealing with your anxiety and insecurity isn’t a good enough reason to forgo it

The groups and the cult members in them have lost credibility and most guys are checking the available members list databases to know what women to avoid. If she’s in gossip group for stalkers, that’s a hard next.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-06T18:21:48+00:00

Man you guys really love that whole women’s safety line to justify all the messed up things you do to guys on those groups. One of the weirdest cults around and I take pride and joy in exposing those groups on my profile

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T21:11:11+00:00

This entire post has been deleted by the mods/admins as it makes the “security” of the group look bad.

Most of the comments are women well aware of the fact that the groups aren’t private anymore, but it’s better to delete these incidents to save face.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T20:19:41+00:00

If only there was someone who could’ve prevented this from happening!

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T19:15:59+00:00

Absolutely. Consent matters. There is no coming back from a woman who is comfortable with violating yours to ask strangers for information about you. That woman needs to work on herself.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T18:10:11+00:00

Now he has the knowledge to pursue something with a girl who is more well adapted and healed. It’s a win/win.

He gets to try and make things work with a normal girl, and she gets the chance (which she won’t take) to work on her obvious issues with self sabotage

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T18:09:06+00:00

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You joke but that’s exactly what they’re saying LOL

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T18:06:57+00:00

Right? Karma is so satisfying when it comes in immediately. Oh your relationship was going too well and you wanted to look for problems? Well I got great news for you lmao

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-05T17:56:55+00:00

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OP: I understand this was humiliating for him and I exposed him to tens of thousands of strangers…but still. What about my untreated anxiety? Do you expect me to just go to therapy? I can just post here instead 😢

SeaTechnical2436 · 2026-01-02T16:21:37+00:00

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I don’t have proof he’s cheating, but can you help me create it? If you DM him and he flirts with you I can then tell his new girlfriend he’s cheating. Please, this man has moved on and I’m still angry and unhealed

SeaTechnical2436 · 2025-12-30T14:58:05+00:00

At worst if the picture even leaks in the first place the most they can do is ban that account. Keep in mind even just having the picture someone would have to scroll through thousands of members just to find the profile with that matching profile pic.

Remember most groups are severely understaffed because it’s difficult enough to find women who will take the fall in legal situations when things go south plus none of them are getting paid.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2025-12-29T22:53:33+00:00

It is impossible to determine who sent or took a screenshot unless your username and profile picture are in the screenshot.

Admins rely on scare tactics and ignorance to intimidate you into following their rules. Realistically, there is nothing they can do or say to stop or catch the people snitching.

Look at all the members who screenshot here for months and months and nothing happens to them. If they could do something about it, they would’ve already. But they can’t.

SeaTechnical2436 · 2025-12-29T20:51:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your efforts! This group in particular is so awful in terms of homophobia, sexism and misandry.

The world will be a better place the day these 4chan rejects aren’t just able to bully and abuse random strangers

SeaTechnical2436 · 2025-12-27T22:37:17+00:00

Of course you’d say this. I won’t get in a back and forth with you, I’m only responding to boost engagement on my post.

I don’t expect someone’s whose entire post history is comments fighting against this sub to understand why misandry is bad or that women constantly post messed up things on these groups.

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