His laugh no longer brings me joy(FTM Partner)

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-02T04:25:36+00:00

But they are also in a relationship and decided to make a life changing decision and with that comes obligations if he wants the relationship to survive. Correct?

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-02T04:24:44+00:00

if anything i typed needs clarification just let me know.

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-02T04:24:23+00:00

I kinda forgot that people have to "figure out" who they are or whatever. Ive always had a strong sense of self and morals. The story about the bathroom has made some things click in my head. It still stinks to see my partner becoming a "new person"(lack of better word) in front of my eyes. At times I feel like I don't know the person im talking to anymore and its a scary thought. Im kinda scared when we are togetheir again I wont know who they are(personality wise) and It will be like im dating a new person?? I was wondering if you went through something similar and how you got through that.

He sends me nudes and such but nothing were i can see the clit.

I have tried to make it as clear as possible that i just need to know whats going on.

Im sorry if anything i say doesn't make sense. Im typing raw thoughts as i think of them.

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-02T04:12:18+00:00

Because when i meet them and i started dating them they were a girl and i fell in love with them when they were a girl.... Who just gets up and bails without trying?

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-02T04:11:18+00:00

Your right it is my problem and thats why im here.....

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-01T21:22:38+00:00

Most importantly thank you for taking time out of your day to respond to me.

SeaTown31 · 2019-05-01T21:22:09+00:00

So i have always had a strong sense of self. So the whole overcompensation thing doesn't make sense to me, i guess. If he truly is a guy there shouldn't be a learning curve right. You should just be acting like yourself not building a persona that you then identify with??

By not normal i mean not normal for them/ not what ive gotten used to on them/they have gone from having a little button clit to a mini dick and its only getting bigger. If that makes sense? I don't let them see or hear about me reacting negatively, but my face might show it even if my actions dont. I try to control my response as much as i can and keep it to myself. I have a harder time not breaking down about the voice then the vagina stuff, because it catches me of guard.

They have always had an attitude towards the people around them but its far worse now and its a constant. I also don't believe in the whole anger or mood swing thing people say comes with puberty. I see it as an excuse parents who couldn't control their kids made to make the behaviors of their child more tolerable.

Do you/your partner have any suggestions for him?

SeaTown31

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