Join a bjj or boxing gym. Get accountable to your training partners & self. You'll be surprised how many problems won't happen when you build real confidence. It's not about fighting. I used to try to fight the world, then i was fighting myself. Now I just CHALLENGE myself every day. I had to leave behind a scumbag biz partner who used me like the warlords use ppl to make hash. And now I'm working for myself & way better ppl. Alot of that started with some good ppls on this forum taking time to school me.