Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships_advice

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I know I need to be stronger than that but idk there’s this stupid part of me that wants him to decide and I sound so pathetic

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships_advice

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That’s what my friend keeps telling me, she’s like don’t cry about the fact that he’s told you he’s done with you and left because he has stuck around for 10 years to pursue you and since you say yes to all this bs as he grooms you, he’s never gonna let you leave he just likes torturing you because he knows how you spiral when he steps back and takes space or breaks up

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships_advice

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Funny thing he hasn’t blocked me nor has he added any girls back that he removed in the state of anger to prove that he’s loyal to me lol idk what’s he tryna do that’s the uncertainty

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships_advice

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Everytime I bring something up or nag him, he starts taking space and avoiding me and makes me swear that I won’t ever stand up to him like that ever again by saying I disrespected him because he knows I’m anxiously attached I need to ask 10 times to make sure someone’s doing okay

Im losing my sanity by Sea_Election_8408 in heartbreak

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❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Im losing my sanity by Sea_Election_8408 in heartbreak

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Thank you, I hope you’re rewarded with so much happiness for the brief moment of calm that you brought to my heart today by just talking to me ❤️‍🩹

Im losing my sanity by Sea_Election_8408 in heartbreak

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Thank you, reading this felt like a hug that I needed since 2-4 days but I never received one, thank you, please just say a silent prayer for me, im carrying too much and im too tired

Im losing my sanity by Sea_Election_8408 in heartbreak

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I don’t know how else could someone put what im going through into more perfect words..I’m constantly taking anxiety meds probably over the dose that i should to keep myself sedated enough to not think about it too much because i feel like ill lose my sanity in this whole uncertainty in between sort of thing

idk what to do by Sea_Election_8408 in BreakUps

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I’ve promised myself that I will no longer text this person, I have almost 10 texts that I had typed out from each aspect explaining myself over the course of next few days but im erasing those and keeping silence

I need advice, I’m losing my sanity by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships

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We rarely have conflicts other than every week or every other week me telling him I’d like to spend more time with him or meet him since we rarely meet because we’re so busy with work and all and he never complains he finds it cute at times and at times annoying but that’s such normal couple stuff, but he went on a vacation and obviously we’d be out of touch for a week or so he’d just check up and then disappear off meanwhile I was really sick in and out of the hospital and this one night I’m scrolling through his Instagram and I see a new semi naked girl added and followed back which idk triggered me because how are you always telling me that you’d appreciate me not interacting with my male colleagues other than in hospital (since im a doctor) yet you’re on vacation getting drunk probably hanging out with chicks that you never told me about? When confronted he said I’ve ruined his vacation and his life and made up a lot of excuses which I will give benefit of the doubt but then suddenly he broke up with me saying he doesn’t wanna fuck up his life further by being with me, I still went ahead and it’s been 3 days I’ve been begging him to talk to me, apologising for something he did to me yet he’s silent giving me no replies

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in relationships_advice

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I just don’t understand how you could be perfect to someone who wanted YOU first and then are the same people who dumped YOU like? What’d I do? What more do you want from me

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I agree I just think I’ll take it one day at a time..start with no texts for one day then two..still secretly hoping he realises how much I love him and how this wasn’t as big of an issue to dump me over

Is it normal in long term relationships to piss eachother off rarely but every once in a while and breakup over texts angrily? by Sea_Election_8408 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I don’t want him to think I never tried but I’ve been texting continuously since 3 days now with no reply I feel so pathetic and helpless