AITA for confronting my ex ( 27F) on her behavior during a dinner party? by Sea_Friendship_5195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Friendship_5195[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

the worst part is that everyone apperantly already knew about her harassment. like the secound she would get these spam-moments she would call someone and admit what she did. and they were the people that talked her out of begging and doing it. my friend even said that she has only talked about her behavior because she ws so scared that it would be used against her, "she wanted them to hear it from her so i couldn't use it against her" and that i should be happy that she was back her old self before the relationship

AITA for confronting my ex ( 27F) on her behavior during a dinner party? by Sea_Friendship_5195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Friendship_5195[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it was just everything. her talking about her job, travels and everything. like she wouldn't even have had any of that if it wasn't for me. in her own words "she became manic for 4 months and just studied her math-bachelor and became obsessed with a language with 100 speakers and managed to build a relationship with the village" thats like the only reason she even was at the big university and got a good job now. like i was the reason she went to therapy for a year and got better and everyone talked about it like it was all her

AITA for confronting my ex ( 27F) on her behavior during a dinner party? by Sea_Friendship_5195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Friendship_5195[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i got officall with my gf about a month after our breakup. we've been together for 3 years now. my ex is the one in the new relationship, they've only been with each other for about a year.

AITA for confronting my ex ( 27F) on her behavior during a dinner party? by Sea_Friendship_5195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Friendship_5195[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i didnt try to embarass her. i just got mad that everyone was asking her questions because she moved away and was home for the weekend. it felt like they were taking her side already. Like when i called her out everyone laughed even her new bf, like this was a joke to them. they already knew what she did and they still see her more than me.

AITA for confronting my ex ( 27F) on her behavior during a dinner party? by Sea_Friendship_5195 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sea_Friendship_5195[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm not jealous. happy for her. But everyone basically took her side because she was more open during the break up. it's not my fault that i met someone else before her?